Ogunquit in Full Color – 3

Even the most striking autumn color is doomed to fade. Sometimes that happens overnight, with a harsh biting frost, but more often it happens in slower and less definitive fashion, as in the way the sky softens, and wispy clouds filter the light. It’s a very subtle change, and one might miss it when presented with a rose thrillingly defying the edge of the ocean, but if you look closely you will detect it.

There is a more nuanced beauty at work when the change happens, delicate gradations and misty renderings as a gauze descended like the fog, and on our final full day in the seaside town, the rain fell steadily, revealing a murky melancholy that was not wholly unwelcome. After a summer of sun, it’s only fair. Fitting too, as an afternoon nap is a luxury to be indulged while on vacation, and you don’t feel like you’re missing as much when it’s raining.

Before that, however, we got in a walk along the Marginal Way. The colors were a comfort – gentle and harmonious – in the way that nature manages to put forth the most pleasing palette seemingly without the slightest effort.

We finish with a lunch in Perkins Cove. Though the days are turning gray, they are doing so in thrilling fashion. Fall can be charming, and we are already under its spell.

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Ogunquit in Full Color – 2

Brilliance was all around us, in the sensational colorful carpets of mums and gourds, the deep blue of sea and sky, and the fiery explosions of dahlias and sea roses. A banner of vibrancy was flying in super-saturated form, as if every last effort to show-off was being expended in a pageant of floral fireworks. Everything wanted in on this display.

All the flowers seemed to celebrate the glorious summer that came before. Sure, a few showed fatigue, but those that remained were reinvigorated with the cooler nights and dew-studded mornings.

The asters were at the height of their glory. They wait all season for these final weeks of putting on a show, and it’s always worth it. I should definitely think about putting a few of these plants in. I don’t know, though, part of me is always looking ahead. Beauty like this might jerk me back into longing for an endless summer.

Yellow chrysanthemums just might be the season’s signature motif, brightly cheering every other nook or corner. Their ubiquity renders them all but invisible to my eyes, but they have their purpose to serve, and I’ll not begrudge them their power.

Still, I want for something deeper, something passionate and purple and bleeding with color. I found that here too.

The tapestry of fall in Maine is a wondrous sight to behold. It prepares the heart for what is yet to come.

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Ogunquit in Full Color – 1

Marking our 16th fall in Ogunquit, this year found us embracing some old favorites on their way out, and putting our official vacation season to sleep for the year. I’ve got a couple trips coming up, but our Columbus Day weekend in Maine is when we say good-bye to the majority of sunny days. It’s a bittersweet trip, but when you go in knowing that, it makes things a little more precious. We hold them a little dearer and closer to the heart.

The sea – constant and powerful, beautiful and devastating – would shout out in roaring waves. Foaming at the mouth, it would shoot its spray into the air and onto the rocky outcroppings. That would come later. For now, it gently lapped at the shore, an innocent young canine playing with gentle yet insistent purpose.

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A Dew-Kissed Entry

The sea roses held onto the morning dew – or was it the previous eve’s rain? -with their soft pink petals. Hardened by the spray of the sea and the rush of the shore wind, the cooler night temperatures didn’t bother them in the least. Rosa rugosa is a hardy species, designed to battle with the wilderness that surrounds the ocean. These blossoms may appear delicate, but they are powerful, if pretty, little things.

They announce themselves from afar with their bright color, and they whisper on the wind with their sweetly-intoxicating perfume. It is the perfect welcome-back to Maine, and to the way life should be…

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The Party of the Year: Beaujolais Goes Boo!

New Time, New Place, Same Fabulousness.

The spooky season just got a lot more stylish, as the Beaujolais Wine Celebration becomes the Boo-jolais Wine Celebration, moving up a few weeks from its usual pre-holiday season time slot. The Alliance for Positive Health is shaking things up for this year’s benefit, starting with a new theme, a new date, and a new venue.

This year the celebration takes place on Friday, October 28 at the Washington Avenue Armory in Albany, NY – a grand atmosphere for the battalion of glamorous costume-clad attendees set to storm the start of Halloween weekend.

As always, this event features lots of fine wine and delicious food, supplied by a stellar assembly of Albany eateries. Perhaps most exciting this time around is the entertainment that will be on gloved hand in the form of several drag performances by two of my favorite local luminaries: Countess Sondra Rox and Grande Duchess Ivanna.

The Beaujolais Celebration is one of the highlights of my party-going year, and though they always do an impeccable job of crafting unforgettable evenings, this one looks to be reinvigorated and rejuvenated by all of the energizing changes. That includes the encouraged dress code: as this falls on the weekend before Halloween, this is a costume party. While they are not required, costumes are definitely appreciated, but if a suit and tie is your comfort zone, feel free to stay true to yourself. This is one of the most accepting and fun parties we attend, no matter what you wear, and it’s going to be extra-special this year.

Get Ready to go Boo!

The BOO-jolais Wine Celebration


Friday, October 28th – 6 to 9 PM

Location: Washington Avenue Armory in Albany

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This… Just This

Not many political speeches move me to tears, but Michelle Obama, perhaps our finest First Lady ever, made one that touched me so deeply and unexpectedly that I found myself weeping at the beauty, power, wonder and grace of it all. This is what it means to be American. This is what it means to be honorable. This is what it means to be a human that cares about humanity. This is what I hope our country truly is.

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Easing into Ogunquit

A preamble for a couple of Ogunquit posts, this is a teaser for a weekend of recapping that Beautiful Place By The Sea. Looking back wistfully, I will relive that glorious time in one of our favorite places in the world. Our fall trip is traditionally a bittersweet one, as we close out the season and hunker down for the long winter ahead. Still, there is much beauty to be had and a coziness that only comes in the fall. Come back tomorrow as we revisit the charm…

Beauty awaits.

 

 

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He Gets Me, He Really Gets Me

Leave it to Tom Ford to distill my little life into a few choice sound bites. It’s as if he’s taken the wisdom gleaned from four decades on this earth and bottled it in one Private Blend bottle. Complex, challenging, yet sublimely simple. This is why I find him such an inspiration. When you achieve what Mr. Ford has, there is more than beauty and design at work – there is a thoughtful intelligence, and a scrupulously studied understanding of the world.

I am really a loner after all; I am really not a social person. Because of my job, people think I am out every night, but I really hate all that. I am somebody who likes to be alone and see some close friends. I am a shy and introspective person. ~ Tom Ford

But as an adult working in the fashion industry, I struggle with materialism. And I’m one of the least materialistic people that exist, because material possessions don’t mean much to me. They’re beautiful, I enjoy them, they can enhance your life to a certain degree, but they’re ultimately not important. ~ Tom Ford

We live in a material world. I’m not saying that beautiful things don’t enhance our lives. But, in our culture, we’re never happy. ~ Tom Ford

What is important is that we stop and realize, ‘Okay. This is fine. I can enjoy that.’ But what is really important, what I’m really going to take away with me from this life, is my connection with other people. ~ Tom Ford

Bonus: he’s a fellow Virgo. We have the worst sign, but it sometimes serves us well. Not sure others would agree…

The world might be a very scary place if it were only run by Virgos. ~ Tom Ford

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Usher Takes His Shirt Off (And Then Some)

Nude male celebrities are nothing new in these parts, so this may just be another hum-drum event for you, dear viewer. However, it’s Usher, so pay some respect. While some may never forgive him for unleashing the likes of Justin Bieber on an unsuspecting world, I don’t blame him for previous wrongdoing, particularly if he’s going to treat his fans to peep-shows like the one seen here.

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Dusky New York

Winking in the cloudy distance, the Empire State Building sends its sparkling spire into the heavens, where it illuminates the misty air like a halo around its head. An empty office building across the way glows warmly against the cool shades of the fallen night. I hope that it’s empty, at least for the sake of any denizens otherwise exposed to my post-shower full-frontal display. I never like showing off to the uninvited, and such a stance is more often than not returned.

On this evening, with the quiet glow of a television set behind me, I am mostly in silhouette, and if anyone cares to trouble themselves with peeping from below, well, let them have at it. This is no place for the embarrassed or shy. A conundrum and contradiction perhaps, and if you’ve been coming here for a while you know the routine.

A New York night carries many mysteries, and even more possibilities.

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Hump Day Hydrangeas

Once again the race is on for our front-yard ‘Endless Summer’ hydrangeas to squeeze out a few glorious blooms before the first hard frost takes them all away. This has been happening more frequently in recent years. Though technically these plants are supposed to bloom on old and new wood (if a plant is ‘supposed’ to do anything), I’ve yet to see any substantial evidence of this. (Partly because I cut down most of the old wood anyway.) As warm and sunny as the season has shone, it’s been a lackluster one as far as hydrangea blooms go. Only the old-fashioned cream-colored variety produced a steady stream of blooms, though the lace-caps in the backyard, hidden by a fountain of Miscanthus, put on a secret show.

As if pre-empting this blog post, however, the plants suddenly developed a host of blooms these last few weeks, ready to burst forth in their soft pink hues (I gave up trying to acidify the soil long ago). It’s going to be a close-call as to whether or not they will expose their full splendor before the cold nights wither everything in sight.

Still, I appreciate the last-ditch effort, and it’s bringing a freshness to the garden at a point when I’™d all but given up on such new treats. It will be a poignant final movement in pink.

Perhaps it’s also a well-thought-out plan: at this time of the year, when the sun slants a little lower in the sky the light is brilliant for illuminating and enriching this kind of color. Everything happens for a reason, especially in the garden.

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A Little Sexy, A Little Ugh… Well, Ugg

This post is in no way meant to imply or inspire an acceptance of Uggs, which I find to be one of the more egregious fashion blights to take over the nation. It will never reach the proportion or offensive stature of, say, Crocs – but it’s bad enough. That said, here’s some free advertising because we are about to dive end-zone-first into football season.

Here we have Tom Brady and Julian Edelman in a tongue-in-cheek take on what is likely a rather accurate rendering of their relationship. I just want to know two things: who designed that gorgeous room? And may I join in the fun? I’ll be quiet, I promise. (Wonder if Mr. Brady gets as naked as this if the fire gets too hot…) PS – One more question: where is THE GRONK?

Check out the fun below:

 

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The Love That Dare Not Speak…

There’s no good reason for not watching this amazing film until now, but I just saw ‘Carol’ and you should stop what you’re doing and watch it too. Well, hold that thought. It’s actually got a big holiday background to it, so wait a month or two, but definitely queue it up. Two of my favorite performers – Cate Blanchett and Rooney Mara – give nuanced, subtle, and mesmerizing performances as two women caught up in a love affair that was not possible in its time. Definitely food for thought on this National Coming Out Day.

Dearest. There are no accidents and he would have found us one way or another. Everything comes full circle. Be grateful it was sooner rather than later. You’ll think it harsh of me to say so, but no explanation I offer will satisfy you. Please don’t be angry when I tell you that you seek resolutions and explanations because you’re young. But you will understand this one day. And when it happens, I want you to imagine me there to greet you, our lives stretched out ahead of us, a perpetual sunrise. But until then, there must be no contact between us. I have much to do, and you, my darling, even more. Please believe that I would do anything to see you happy. So, I do the only thing I can… I release you. ~ Carol

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Nothing Hostile Here

Focus on the host portion of this hosta, and forget any similarity to hostility. Words are tricky that way. Deceitful little things. Unlike this beautiful hosta, whose enchantment is magnified in the second photo, thanks to the droplet-adorned accoutrement of falling rain. If it seems like I’m hanging fruitlessly onto a summer that long ago departed, it’s because that’s exactly what I’m doing. No shame in my Wilson Phillips game. Sing it Carnie!

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