Category Archives: Albany

Albany: Looking Up

No matter what size city you may find yourself in, I always advise looking up when you are first finding your way, because much is missed is you keep your gaze solely at eye level. I must have ignored my own advice for the past few decades, as I never really noticed the beauty atop the Peter D. Kiernan Plaza, which sits right across the street from my office building. Previously operating as Union Station, the building was once where trains arrived and departed from unit the late 1960’s, when it was bought by New York State. Renovated and preserved in the late 1980’s, it was named the Peter D. Kiernan Plaza for the head of Norstar Bancorp (which is still listed on the front of the building). 

Sadly, that’s all the historical and architectural Albany info I bothered to investigate. One day maybe I’ll do a deeper dive into what the sculptural elements mean, such as the lion-fronted globes on each corner of the building. I do love a lion sculpture. It’s also a good reminder to myself to look up and see what other treasures are dangling right above us every day. Now that I’m walking more in the milder weather, the world is rising before me. Remember: look up!

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Dazzler of the Day: Jeannine M. Trimboli

Last year’s production of ‘End of the Rainbow’ as staged by Curtain Call Theatre and directed by Phil Rice found local leading luminary Jeannine M. Trimboli giving one of her trademark electrifying performances, in this case as Judy Garland. It was a role which pushed her to new heights, both in her acting prowess, and her own personal resonance to the woman she was portraying. A recent comic turn in ‘Tony n’ Tina’s Wedding’ proves her versatility, more than ample reason to highlight her as this Dazzler of the Day. She’s reached a point of wisdom and reflection in her life, as evidenced by this social media post she wrote, which speaks volumes more than any accolade I could conjure: 

Never would have thought I could have left performing for a lifetime plus and returned better than when I left. Yet it’s the lifetimes in me that’s given me my spark back.
Having lost so much keeps me humble and joyous for every moment I get to do this, wherever that is.
It’s important to love the work because it never ends. The preparation for a moment that might never come.
And that’s okay. Because there’s also the pure ecstasy of being a part of something. A show, a class, an audition. None of it is wasted time. None of it. ~ Jeannine M. Trimboli

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A Church Visit Thwarted

It had been a couple of months since I last stopped in at St. Mary’s in downtown Albany, so the other day at lunch I buttoned up my coat, slung a scarf around my neck, and walked up the hill in the direction of the church. I used to go there in the summer before and after Dad died. It was a small moment of comfort in days of sorrow.

On this January afternoon, the sky was blue and the sun was shining, but there wasn’t much warmth in the air. At least there wasn’t much wind either. I hadn’t been moving a lot in my post-holiday slump, and my calves burned as I neared the top of the hill. This was where I served jury duty in that awful murder case. Walking past the courthouse no longer left me with a haunted feeling, it was just another marker of a memory, another piece of the past living only in my head, like summer in the middle of winter

My contemplative mood melted into relief that I’d arrived at the church. I reached for the heavy door, but it was locked. On this day, not even God would let me in. I paused there in the  shadow of the doorway, then headed back down the hill. 

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Albany’s Nipper Tastes A Rainbow

This post was originally entitled ‘Albany’s Nipper Pukes A Rainbow‘ but then I remembered it’s almost fucking Christmas so I wanted to show a little respect. Just a little bit. (Just a little bit.) 

Rainbows in December – for all the charm and wonder and beauty of them, something disturbing and foreboding lingers in the queasy light and rain. On a recent afternoon, following a day of drizzle and gray clouds, the sun peeked out, and a multitude of rainbows filled the December sky. One landed right outside my office window, another seemed to emanate from the mouth of Nipper. (Strangely enough, not the dog’s first nip at a rainbow.) Andy sent me photos from his doctor’s appointment, where a full rainbow arched over the entire sky. Social media lit up with all of them – a world of rainbows on a December afternoon – signifiers of peace or something much more sinister, like climate change, and none of us caring to be any wiser. 

So we put our pictures up and write our blog posts and go on our merry ways, thinking how wonderful and enchanting it is to have rainbows at this late stage of the calendar year. Would Noah have gone through all that trouble if he knew how little humanity would care for any of his creatures gone extinct? The planet in peril perhaps… the rainbows a plea…

And somewhere over the rainbow a heaven that may or may not exist, along with whatever might become of our souls. When you’ve seen the dust we all become, you understand what little substance makes up a rainbow, along with how pure it must be. Maybe the rainbows are angels, messengers of God, telling us when we’re getting it right, and, probably more often, when we’re getting it wrong. 

Driving home through the rainbows, I do my best to live in some sort of grace, so as not to ruffle the universe’s feathers too much. Invoking the wrath of any entity, human or otherwise, is rarely a wise motion. Silent reverence, then, in honor of all that we do not know, and a little respect. Just a little bit… 

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#TinyThreads: An Insignificant Series

All this time I’ve been trying to find a parking space in downtown Albany I could have just sidled onto the sidewalk with my Mini-Cooper and solved the whole issue. Good to know!

#TinyThreads

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Dazzler of the Day: Yono Purnomo

Capital Region culinary legend Yono Purnomo has been feeding this lucky section of New York State with delicious panache since the 1980’s, and while things have changed remarkably in the ensuing years, it’s clear that Yono still knows how to shine, hence this Dazzler of the Day honor. He and his restaurants have earned countless awards and accolades over the years, and throughout all that time he and his wife Donna have remained grounded, generous, and kind members of the community. Even beyond retirement, they could be seen helping out, because helping wasn’t something they did for money or praise – helping was in their nature. Now that Yono is in end-stage renal failure, a kidney transplant is the best option for keeping him going, so check out their FaceBook page to help spread the word on seeking a live donor. 

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A Friend In Need of a Kidney

“Madju-terus pantang mundur.”

A Capital Region treasure, who has made dining in the area a pleasure for decades, has come to a point where he needs our help, and if anyone is reading this who might be in a position to give something valuable back, please take the time to visit this post

Chef Yono Purnomo, famed proprietor of Yono’s, has end-stage renal failure and is in need of a kidney transplant. For someone who has always given back so much to his community, it is likely a strange and new sensation to be the one in need. For the rest of us who have benefited from his hospitality and warmth and welcoming disposition, this is an opportunity to reward that service, while saving a life and helping a family keep their beloved father, husband, and grandfather. 

Please share this and spread the word, and if you or someone you know are interested in becoming a donor, you may contact Live Donor Coordinator Jessica Martin at 518-262-4602. (The FaceBook page for ‘Yono Needs a Kidney’ may be found here.)

“My father always told me it doesn’t matter who you love or where you live, you must always believe in yourself. Follow your heart and be patient. Adapt yourself to your new surroundings. Be humble, kind and determined.” ~ Yono Purnomo

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Dazzler of the Day: Samantha Parker

Realtors have to be the most seductive people on earth because their jobs and livelihoods depend upon winning people over. (Confession: I’ve fallen prey to their unintentional charm at least once.) Behind any successful seduction, however, a bit of genuine heart is required, as most of us eventually wise-up to the rest. Taking such care into finding homes for others, Samantha Parker earns her first Dazzler of the Day for putting her heart into her job, while expanding and searching for her own purpose in the city of Albany. 

What is most intriguing to me is her mission-without-a-mission-statement for an ongoing/upcoming/ever-evolving project she terms #TheHeartOfAlbany. “My heart has changed courses a couple of times,” she begins on the intro page, and my own heart thrills at someone who can be open and honest enough to acknowledge and face changes as they come, be they difficult or trying or initially-unwanted. The idea she is working on is in its incubation stages – and that’s always impressive for those of use who won’t try anything out publicly unless we are absolutely sure it will work. I admire that courage and audacity. If you’re looking for a home, or simply for some inspiration, spirit and sparkle, check out her website here along with her opening salvo for #TheHeartOfAlbany excerpted below. 

What is #TheHeartOfAlbany?

A project or a hobby? I don’t believe it will be anything earth-shattering. With the exception of daily journaling and the occasional social media posts, I don’t really write. So what is this? I tried something a few years back with #TheHeartOfAlbany that never really lifted off because I overthought it. Typical. “Analysis paralysis”, as my friend Eric Meissner would say. At that time, #TheHeartOfAlbany consisted of long form video interviews with the feel and style of who knows what. I had a vision a long time ago while majoring in communications at UAlbany that I would interview people for “the scoop” by asking poignant questions, digging deeper into understanding them so they’d share their soul. Much like Oprah, I have always admired her, (we would be besties). In my mind, that sounded good yet it didn’t happen that way in these videos. BTW – Shout out to Alejandro del Peral and Tom Nardacci. They rolled with me at my first attempts, they trusted me. People will say “yes” when you ask for help, especially when its to share their passion. Long form videos take a lot of time and resources, so the project soon became a hashtag of home sales in the area along with places I found interesting in my travels. Not at all what I envisioned it, however I didn’t want it to fade.

So here I am, a few years later trying not to overthink the #HeartOfAlbany + looking to bring it back somehow. Originally, the idea for this was to document local people doing amazing things in our area. “Change-makers” … people passionate about their craft, their work and highlight the impact they were making. I feel like I am being called to try this “thing” again, and heavily. Reflecting that it’s been a 3 years since “the world shut down” (to the day), there could be some correlation.

So, it’s 2023. What am I doing? What are others doing?

If you don’t know me, a vibrancy has always lived inside of me. I have gotten through sooo much in this life. Because of that I have an immense amount of love and compassion for others, have always been an uplifter, an encourager. My nicknames “perky Sam Parker” and “Sam Sparkle” were welcomed because I am mostly cheerful, I smile a lot. I walk into spaces to warm them. During the pandemic I would do FB Live videos with birthday wishes and reading daily excerpts from A Year of Positive Thinking by Cyndie Spiegel, just to spread optimism. To spread hope. Being around people brings life into every fiber of my being so you can imagine I was itching to break out of jail. I do my best to find silver-linings, it always gave me hope and always strengthened me.

So, as I look around at this city right now, in 2023, who is rebuilding this city after some darks days, weeks, months even years, post-apocalypse? I know there are a vast number of people who complain a lot. I am not talking to those people. I am asking if there are others that believe there is great opportunity here who are eager to see this city vibrant again? Are you wondering the same thing? Perhaps you are seeking more for our home too. Are people doing something to restore and/or keep their vibrancy and passion alive here too? If so, I need to find them. Talk to them. Maybe they never left. Maybe they did. Maybe they abandoned their ideas and gave up and are stagnant, or maybe like me they are finding their passion again. Someone out there must know though. I cannot be the only one craving more energy. #TheHeartOfAlbany may not make big waves or reach the masses, but if one story turns into two, two then turns into three… I would be so happy. I have no mission statement, just a heart. And if it leads me to a few more hearts who desire the same things, thats a huge win. Are you someone I should talk to? I am here for it.

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Let Pride Be Your Guide

This announcement of an upcoming Drag Story Hour/Cabaret for Kids at the New York State Museum in Albany, NY is probably the best thing about this year’s Pride Month, and it’s being helmed by two of my favorite performers – Frieda Munchon and Carmie Hope. While the Republican Party is currently doing its best to alienate itself from the most basic tenets of human decency, it has turned its wayward focus to attacking drag performers. The last hundred reports of adults sexually abusing children I’ve heard about were perpetrated by straight white men. Not one of those was a drag queen. But the GOP is going off the deep end and most sane people are beginning to see that, so to be attacked and vilified by them is now a mark of honor and, dare I say, respectability. 

As for a drag queen story hour for kids, I only wish someone had taken me to something like this when I was a kid. Children can usually detect authenticity, and they often respond with unspoken respect and adoration to those who are most themselves, even and especially when what they’re doing makes them different from other people. To be a drag queen takes the courage and determination to be what you absolutely have to be no matter how much shit you will inevitably get from certain hateful sectors of the world. To be a drag queen takes the bravery and nobility to stay true to yourself in the face of others who may never understand or accept or simply leave you alone. To be a drag queen is to embrace a spirit of fun and beauty and open-heartedness that makes this world a better place. 

I can’t think of a better role model for a child to have. 

{The Drag Story Hour/Cabaret for Families and Kids will take place on June 24, 2023 at the Huxley Theater at the New York State Museum, 260 Madison Avenue, Albany, NY. The event is free and runs from 1 to 4 PM.}

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Going to War For Lunch

Quiet Fridays in downtown Albany are a secret, almost-enjoyable, aspect of summer that I’m hoping to keep mostly to myself, so don’t tell anyone what I’m about to tell you. My preferred method of working at the office involves as few people as possible, as quiet and peaceful an atmosphere as possible, and the least bit of trouble and interaction as possible. It makes sense then that one of my favorite days to work is the day after Thanksgiving, when almost no one else is at the office, and I can catch up on things that have evaded me for the previous eleven months.

On a smaller scale, Fridays in summer afford the same absence of people and activity in downtown Albany, and we had a peek of that yesterday, when a delightfully sunny and perfectly 71-degree day afforded me an opportunity to walk up the hill (State Street) and try out the Albany War Room Tavern for the first time. Renowned Executive Chef Yasuo Saso makes a welcome return to the Albany restaurant scene, and was the main draw for my lunch-time journey.

From their social media pages alone, my mouth has been watering whenever I happen upon a post featuring some gorgeous sushi or steak creation, and after hoofing it up State Street I was hungry and ready. “Peace, Love & Sushi” glowed in neon writing above the sushi station, while Chef Saso could be heard methodically chopping up all the delicious goodness that was in my immediate future. The sound had a calming effect – something soothing and consistent in the midst of what can often be a hot and harried downtown Albany scene.

Framed memorabilia of political and historical figures reminded of all that has gone down in this 1890’s brownstone building, but, warring political factions aside, the lunchtime vibe was calm and cool, and the two rolls I ordered – an Authentic Spicy Crab roll and a Spicy Devil roll of tuna and caviar – made for a light yet filling lunch. I would have gone for a third, but I’d have had to roll down the hill to get back to work. Two were just enough for lunch; we’ll be back for a full dinner soon to try out more indulgences. For now, this was the perfect entry into what may become a Friday afternoon summer tradition.

{The Albany War Room Tavern is located at 42 Eagle Street – check out their website here.}

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You Bet Your Assiduity

ASSIDUITY

1: the quality or state of being assiduous : DILIGENCE

2: persistent personal attention

This little park in Albany is right across the street from my office building, and it’s a charming place three seasons out of the year. (Technically it’s closed from November to March.) Right now it’s filled with tulips and flowering trees, the way much of Albany is, and makes for a happy pause in the downtown work day. 

Having over-written last night, I feel like we need a pause of prettiness for this Sunday morning. Enjoy it.

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Dazzler of the Day: Daquetta Jones

First of all, anyone who rocks a ladybug purse is a dazzler in my book. Second, when you add a lifelong career in helping others and giving back to your local community, you more than earn the title of Dazzler of the Day. Daquetta Jones has been doing both, and doing them fabulously, for more years than seems possible. When the stunning style and colorful sophistication of one’s fashion sense is matched by a career of service (Jones has been the Executive director at YWCA of the Greater Capital Region and the Deputy Commissioner for Administration at New York State Department of Civil Service) the result is a dynamic inspiration for all of us looking to dazzle in our own way. 

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Dazzler of the Day: John Robert Bowers

The Lark Street Renaissance continues as John Robert Bowers is crowned Dazzler of the Day, joining the vaunted ranks of Albany denizens such as Lynn Beaumont, Kevin Bruce, Tess Collins, and Elissa Halloran. Founder and lead therapist at Spa Halcyon, Bowers has been creating an oasis of wellness in the midst of Lark Street, providing spa and beauty treatments in an inviting environment. With his welcoming energy and expert techniques, he knows precisely how to help his clients achieve their desired level of relaxation and stress-release, while aiding in a holistic approach to self-care and health. Too many of us forget that self-care is absolutely vital to taking care of others, and in a world that feels increasingly fractured and disparate, Bowers is a friendly reminder that we need to take of ourselves and each other. {Check out Spa Halcyon’s FaceBook page here.}

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A Fantastic Fellowship

A fantastic opportunity for anyone looking to make a difference and do work that matters, the Edie Windsor, Marsha P. Johnson, and Sylvia Rivera LGBTQ+ Fellowship job posting just went up, so if you know anyone interested in a fellowship for the next two years, check out the official link here and read more about it below:

The New York State LGBTQ+ Fellowship was established to support the ongoing efforts in the Governor’s Office of Diversity and Inclusion to advance diversity, equity, and inclusion across New York State government. The LGBTQ+ Fellow is awarded every two years to an individual who has demonstrated a commitment to social justice, a track record of working on LGBTQ+ equality, civil rights, and diversity, equity, and inclusion issues, and a strong interest in a career in public service.

The Fellow will serve in the Office of Diversity and Inclusion and assist the Chief Diversity Officer in optimizing New York State agency diversity and inclusion goals, increasing BIPOC representation across New York State agencies, and continuing to build the State’s leadership as a model employer for New Yorkers of all gender identities and sexual orientations. In collaboration with internal and external stakeholders, the Fellow will also work to advance LGBTQ+ equity across New York State government, including providing policy and content expertise, project management, strategic communications, and legislative tracking.

The fellowship is named after LGBTQ+ leaders who have—with their courage, tenacity and perseverance—raised awareness of LGBTQ+ issues and made a lasting difference in advancing civil rights for some of the most marginalized within the LGBTQ+ community. The fellowship lasts for two years and is named in recognition of three New York leaders: Edie Windsor for her groundbreaking advocacy successfully challenging the federal defense of marriage act and Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera for their movement leading work against gender identity discrimination and advocacy for transgender inclusion within the larger LGBTQ+ movement.

The Fellow will have the opportunity to network across New York State agencies, with elected officials and industry partners and to participate as an Empire State Fellow in educational and professional development programs, including a week-long orientation session and biweekly evening classes that will help them to serve as an effective government leader and strengthen the network of LGBTQ+ policymakers and leaders in New York State working to advance diversity, equity, and inclusion.

The Fellow will serve from September 2023 to September 2025 and will earn a salary of $85,000 plus a generous benefits package.

Minimum Qualifications:

  • Bachelor’s degree required – advanced degree preferred
  • Five (5) or more years of full-time professional work experience
  • Demonstrated leadership potential
  • Availability to work in Albany, NY with significant travel across the state throughout the two-year program

Applicants who are members of groups underrepresented in policy-making roles in New York State government, which include but are not limited to Black, Hispanic, Asian and Pacific Islander persons; women; persons with disabilities; and gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender persons, are particularly encouraged to apply. Those currently employed in the legislative or executive branches of New York state government are not eligible to apply.

APPLICATION AND POSTING HERE.

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25 Years of ‘In Our Own Voices’ – And A Party

Time for a celebratory moment in honor of an amazing organization. In Our Own Voices, Inc. is commemorating 25 years of providing programs and services to LGBTQAI+ Black, Indigenous, and People of Color! That’s 25 years of building our own tables, strengthening our own voices, and empowering our communities to live authentically.

This is a monumental milestone and we hope to see you at the celebration! Join us at 8pm on Saturday, March 25, 2023, the official anniversary of our founding, for a cocktail party at The State Room in Downtown Albany.

Featuring:

  • DJ RVMBA on the ones and two
  • An extra special drag performance by Mor’Glamazon and Philly Pina
  • And cocktails, of course!

Friends and family, we’ll bring the hors d’oeuvres, drinks, and DJs, all that’s missing is YOU.

{TICKETS AVAILABLE HERE.}

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