Author Archives: Alan Ilagan

A Decade Ago the BroSox Adventures Began…

It was ten years ago that Skip and I were planning our very first Red Sox adventure, not knowing quite how it would go, whether it would be a one-off trip to tick off the bucket list of being a close friend, or maybe turn into something we would want to do again. As history has shown, this became one of summer’s grand traditions, and this year marks a decade since that first fateful trip. We are working on honoring that, as well as simply having another chill adventure next month, because summer means baseball… and a BroSox Adventure. Here’s a look back at our most recent journeys:

BroSox Adventure 2021: Part One and Part Two.

BroSox Adventure 2022

BroSox Adventures 2023

BroSox Adventures 2024: Part One and Part Two.

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Dazzler of the Day: Bella Ramsey

Joining co-star Pedro Pascal in this honor a couple years later, Bella Ramsey earns her first Dazzler of the Day thanks to her ongoing quest on ‘The Last of Us‘. While I’m still not over the dirty they did us in this season’s second episode, Ramsey continues to enthrall and fascinate with her tender and tortured travails, giving her character the kind of nuanced, volatile, and heartachingly visceral ferocity of an atypically typical teenager on an impossible journey. 

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Stars of Green

While I’ve been behind on much of the spring garden maintenance, and the ferns and cup plants and fountain grass have already overtaken the bounds I should have previously delineated, I am ahead of the game on capturing the starburst-like “blooms” of the Chinese dogwood. Usually, I don’t get them until their sepals have turned creamy white, all but demanding to be captured for posterity. The wayward weather of this spring has many of us playing catch-up. 

This is the general state of things I like best – the time before the real show. 

The anticipation, the lead-up, the excitement – and all of it with an idea of perfection just around the corner. 

This is the moment when all of that is possible. 

A moment of green. 

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Oh Hello, Rhody, Old Friend

When we first moved into our current home, a grand rhododendron bush stood in front of our bay window, blocking out much of the light and view for all of the year (except on those exceptionally frigid days when even the evergreen foliage saw fit to curl up and into itself). It was such a large and healthy specimen that we left it there for several years, until it stopped reliably flowering, and I had to make the difficult decision to dig it out. It was the common magenta variety that it everywhere at this time of the year, and in its place went a viburnum, and then the Japanese umbrella pine that is currently being wrangled with rope to keep it upright. The winding journey of a front yard is never completely done. 

Whenever I see a rhododendron in bloom, I remember this bit of our past, and I pause whatever I’m doing to appreciate its prettiness. 

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Dazzler of the Day: Darren Criss

Currently making beautiful music and romantic magic with Helen J. Shen in the refreshingly novel musical ‘Maybe Happy Ending‘, Darren Criss earns a long-overdue Dazzler of the Day honor for a career of musical glory. This marks the first time he has originated a role on Broadway, after astounding audiences in stage roles as varied as ‘Hedwig and the Angry Inch’ and ‘How To Succeed in Business Without Really Trying’. He’s perhaps best known for his role on ‘Glee’ and the subsequent Ryan Murphy series ‘The Assassination of Gianni Versace: American Crime Story’ for which he won seemingly all the awards (Emmy and Golden Globe). For his charmingly robotic role in ‘Maybe Happy Ending’ he has been nominated for a Tony Award. Check out the enchanting show at the Belasco theatre while he’s in it – you won’t be disappointed.

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The Pull of Magnetic Wood: A Fragrance Review

It was on this charming trip to New York last fall that I discovered the gorgeousness that is ‘Magnetic Wood’ by The Harmonist. I wasn’t even on the hunt for a new fragrance when I quite deliberately stepped into Bergdorf Goodman and found my way to their bustling fragrance counter. I was just seeking out confirmation that ‘Promise’ by Frederic Malle would be my holiday cologne, but the salesperson eyed me up and set up The Harmonist – a brand I hadn’t discovered until that moment. He sprayed some on a sample card and waved it in the air before presenting it to me. 

Immediately, I noticed the sweetness of mimosa and the freshness of something like bergamot or citrus, and my initial instinct was to politely back off. It was fall, and I was in the mood for something darker and spicier, and this was not it. I slipped the card into my pocket and went back on the ‘Promise’ prowl. Apparently he was pushing The Harmonist, so he showed me ‘Hypnotizing Fire’ but that wasn’t quite my jam, so I thanked him for his help and made my way back down Fifth Avenue. 

As I did so, I pulled the scented card out of my pocket and tried it again, knowing how perfume changes and evolves and becomes something quite different the longer it wears. I brought it to my nose and it felt like a rush of warm air suddenly broke through the cool fall air of October. ‘Spring’ it whispered, and the bright yellow blooms of mimosa filled my head with their sweetness. My introduction to the scent was from a bouquet that a friend had brought to another friend’s party – I kept smiling something delicious in the air, and circled about until I realized it was coming from the little yellow sprays of mimosa flowers. From that moment on, I loved the scent, even as it bordered on being too sweet for my decidedly drier tastes. 

That said, a little mimosa goes a long way, particularly when one is easy agitated by sweeter florals that border on cloying. The small bottle of Jo Malone’s ‘Mimosa & Cardamom’ I have on hand is almost all entirely still accounted for because I can only take it in small doses on those rare days when I’m feeling uncharacteristically soft and sweet. The card I suddenly couldn’t stop smelling was giving me a different vibe, and my nose was drawn back to it over and over again, haunted by its harmonious combination of the mimosa with something green and woody. At that moment, on some cold concrete corner of New York, I stopped and inhaled ‘Magnetic Wood’, and knew it to be my next spring fragrance.

It opens with those bergamot and green mandarin notes – fresh and crisp in the citrusy way that smells much too fine to last – and then the heart of mimosa and iris opens up into the main attraction. If you enjoy mimosa, this is a gift from the heavens for you. After that, it begins settling down into something with tinges of sandalwood and cedar – just enough to keep the sweetness from becoming sickly. I get a few aquatic waves from this too, which gives it some extra freshness and mellows the sweeter aspects. It’s a precariously fine balance, one which it manages to sustain in part by fading away right before it becomes too smug. Knowing when to pull back is the hat trick of the more challenging perfumes I’ve tried – and the mark of something that’s not going to annoy the wearer, especially in the warmer months. 

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Bring Back The Cheesecake Boys!

Right when the world needs some delectable escapist entertainment and activity, along comes artist Paul Richmond to save the day. Arriving with not one but two books of adult coloring brilliance, Richmond brings back his popular Cheesecake Boys for another round of scintillating and cheeky fun. This time around he expands the original conceit into a second volume, while adding to the body and age positivity that has been a hallmark of his work for years in ‘Cheesecake Daddies’. 

These are darkly dizzying times, and Richmond is a breath of fresh air, optimism, and the fierce ongoing fight for equality and freedom, all done with a sexy veneer of eye candy and colorful inspiration. He invites us to color within the lines, while celebrating those who push the boundaries and challenge hate and homophobia. The artist as healer, the artist as social changer, the artist as a hero and champion for the marginalized – all of it falls within the talented touch of Richmond’s work. Sharing that and inviting engagement is an extra step in his artistic expression, and possibly the most important and profound of what he’s done in his career. It’s what sets him apart from other artists, and informs his work in truly egalitarian form. 

{Check out Richmond’s website here for further evidence of his brilliance.}

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Dazzler of the Day: Helen J. Shen

She provides the desperate impetus that sets the plot of ‘Maybe Happy Ending’ into gloriously romantic motion, bringing Darren Criss’s Oliver to life in a way no robot thought possible. She is Helen J. Shen, currently starring in the rapturous new musical ‘Maybe Happy Ending’ currently playing at the Belasco Theatre. Thanks to her winning turn, Shen earns her first Dazzler of the Day crowning for a stunning Broadway debut. It’s a performance that wins over the loudest laughs of the show, and some of the most moving moments as well, all as her battery is slowly draining away. She embodies the survival of the human spirit, and the insanely insatiable search for love in all of its absurd poignance.

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‘Maybe Happy Ending’: A Review of Enchantment

Rapturously romantic robots, incongruously finding a way to fall in love despite supposedly lacking such emotions, is the simple premise of ‘Maybe Happy Ending’ – and somehow it’s precisely what the world needs right now. A modern-day treatise on romance in a technologically-overwhelming world, where safety is found only in one’s own room, but the quest for finding somewhere we might belong forces us to depart our comfort zones, it’s a musical adventure unlike anything else on Broadway right now.

Directed by Michael Arden, with a book, music and lyrics by Will Aronson and Hue Park, ‘Maybe Happy Ending’ manages to be as light and wistful as it is haunting and touching. Lead performances by Darren Criss and Helen J. Shen ground the work in glorious voices and winsome longing – while Marcus Choi provides the stark emotional reality of the piece. Weaving his way through the standards sung by Gil Brentley, Dez Duron gives slick crooning a lovesick tenor. Together, they speak to a generation raised on cel phones and living their lives through screens, communicating through truncated words in a text, this same generation unable to connect in the most basic ways, trying to figure out how to not be alone. 

‘Maybe Happy Ending’ illuminates the larger question of how much of love is real and how much is merely an act of going through romantic motions, with its interchangeable ideas of Paris or New York cliches. Such things are trite and cliche for all the truth in them. The inexplicable pull of love, and how to convey and create that for the journey they are making, becomes an exercise in figuring out what love might be – and by the end they seem to have come close to figuring out the mystery, at one point wondering why humans put themselves through it. 

Studied and precise, Criss and Chen capture the inherent robotic nature of the situation, while managing to break through the ominous possibilities and limits of an AI world by approximating the love pattern of humans. The essential longing of finding somewhere we might belong is expressed profoundly throughout the evening, and while robots may not fall entirely in love, this show manages to illuminate what happens when humans do – and it’s not something that can be defined or scientifically reproduced. 

At turns rapturously romantic, with a couple of winsome waltzes, some breezy breaks with jazzy inflections, and a standard or two, ‘Maybe Happy Ending’ is very much an old-fashioned romance framed by a fantastically-futuristic setting and atmosphere. Rather than being cold or removed from the human experience, it exemplifies the basic construction of love, thanks to the charming performances of Criss, and particularly Shen, who absolutely shines in a role that runs the gamut from uproariously hilarious to stoically poignant. 

Near the end, the title song puts forth its greatest and most comforting notion – that none of life is ever worth regretting, none of it is ever a waste – it all matters in the moment, and when it was good it is the goodness that runs on, in a perpetual loop, that one can dip into whenever they need comfort, a place where they belong.

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Well Duh

The people working at the cannabis dispensaries are across the board the happiest people working anywhere. 

Nothing profound, just a happy note

And more power to them. Jobs we love are hard to come by. 

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That Wily Weigela

In its shaded and often-forgotten corner of our yard, this Weigela always manages a few blooms every year, to remind me that it’s there, and that I should take better care of it. I’ll pick up some extra manure and give it some love, as this year’s crop of blooms is a lovely addition to the explosion of florals happening for this moment in spring. 

This particular bush was here when we moved in, way back in 2002, so it’s at least half my current age, and still coming back for more. I admire such tenacity and strength in a neglected spot, where we’ve largely left it to fend for itself, and it has consistently performed. 

A couple of years ago I saw a fiery variegated variety with vivid hot pink blooms that was absolutely incendiary. If I see it again I’ll pick it up – we need more tenacity in the garden, especially when it’s this pretty.

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8647

Apparently if you post “8647” you can get a free visit from the FBI to your home for… well, I’m not exactly sure.

Welcome to the autocracy.

Welcome to the death of free speech.

Welcome to everything some of us so adamantly predicted and told you was going to happen if you voted for Trump.

Enjoy! 

And #8647.

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Shirtless Sunday Smörgåsbord

This is just your basic shirtless Sunday post of gratuitousness for easy viewing pleasure and brainless drooling. We need that sort of escape, just in case our virgin posting of The Divine Diva Tour: A Fairy’s Tale isn’t doing it for you. (And with the upcoming heaviness of the next installment, slated for the holiday weekend, it’s not really doing it for me.) So let’s indulge in this shirtless male celebrity post, as kicked off by Bad Bunny, who smoldered in this Calvin Klein underwear shoot, as well as his Dazzler of the Day feature.

David Beckham teases what’s in his pants, as he’s been teasing on this blog for over twenty years

Ncuti Gatwa was much more naked in this dazzling post, but the open cropped jacket and high-waisted pant are giving fashion fire, so we’ll take it. 

Caleb Marshall has been giving fitness and fine views for years, only recently solidified by this Dazzler of the Day crowning

With summer whispering in the air at long last, Will Taylor of Bright/Bazaar fame, has opened his pool and started the Speedo parade. 

Finally, as global ambassador for the Stuart Weitzman shoe empire, Mark Consuelos does some sales-work without technically wearing any clothing whatsoever. Witness him in other shirtless shots here.

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Rizzky Bizness

The Divine Diva Tour: A Fairy’s Tale is a dense and volurious work (see all the links below, and consider that we’re only a little more than halfway through posting the entire thing). To make it a little more palatable and fun, it contained silly breaks for pop culture nods and winks, including this one. 

Just take those old records off the shelfI’ll sit and listen to ’em by myselfToday’s music ain’t got the same soulI like that old time rock ‘n’ rollDon’t try to take me to a discoYou’ll never even get me out on the floorIn ten minutes I’ll be late for the doorI like that old time rock ‘n’ roll

Still like that old time rock ‘n’ rollThat kind of music just soothes the soulI reminisce about the days of oldWith that old time rock ‘n’ roll (oh)

Won’t go to hear ’em play a tangoI’d rather hear some blues or funky old soulThere’s only one sure way to get me to goStart playing old time rock ‘n’ rollCall me a relic, call me what you willSay I’m old-fashioned, say I’m over the hillToday’s music ain’t got the same soulI like that old time rock ‘n’ roll

Still like that old time rock ‘n’ rollThat kind of music just soothes the soulI reminisce about the days of oldWith that old time rock ‘n’ roll (oh)

Still like that old time rock ‘n’ rollThat kind of music just soothes the soulI reminisce about the days of oldWith that old time rock ‘n’ roll (oh)

~ The Divine Diva Tour: A Fairy’s Tale ~

  1. Pink Frilly Fairy: Part OnePart Two, and Part Three
  2. Homage to Herb: Part One, Part Two and Part Three
  3. A Purple-Hued Interlude
  4. Style & Panache: Part One, Part Two, Part Three and Part Four.
  5. Purple Puff Confection: Part OnePart Two, Part Three and Part Four.
  6. A Blue-Hued Interlude
  7. Fuchsia Fabulousness: Part One. Part Two and Part Three.
  8. Bad Boy Bangs: Part OnePart Two. and Part Three.
  9. Vanity Under Where: Part One, Part Two. and Part Three.
  10. Sugar Plum Ballerina: Part OnePart Two, and Part Three.
  11. A Pool Frolic: Part OnePart Two. and Part Three.
  12. A Cemetery Interlude: Part One and Part Two.
  13. Powder Blue Fur Doll: Part One, Part Two, and Part Three.
  14. A Milky Interlude 
  15. Rock Out, Cock Out/ Hang Out, Wang Out: Part OnePart Two, and Part Three.
  16. Cocktail Cocktale: Part One and Part Two.
  17. A Fairy’s Interlude: Part One and Part Two.
  18. Willy Wonkers: Part One, Part Two, and Part Three.
  19. A Peacock In Everything But Beauty: Part One, Part Two, and Part Three.
  20. Swan Lake Fantasia: Part One, Part Two, Part Three, and Part Four.
  21. Black & White in Briefs: Part One and Part Two.

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