A Diva’s Show Must Go On

Let us take a deep breath before we resume the weekend posting schedule of ‘The Divine Diva Tour: A Fairy’s Tale’ – one that affords us a moment to look back at our story thus far in the following links:

~ The Divine Diva Tour: A Fairy’s Tale ~

  1. Pink Frilly Fairy: Part OnePart Two, and Part Three
  2. Homage to Herb: Part One, Part Two and Part Three
  3. A Purple-Hued Interlude
  4. Style & Panache: Part One, Part Two, Part Three and Part Four.
  5. Purple Puff Confection: Part OnePart Two, Part Three and Part Four.
  6. A Blue-Hued Interlude
  7. Fuchsia Fabulousness: Part One. Part Two and Part Three.
  8. Bad Boy Bangs: Part OnePart Two. and Part Three.
  9. Vanity Under Where: Part One, Part Two. and Part Three.
  10. Sugar Plum Ballerina: Part OnePart Two, and Part Three.
  11. A Pool Frolic: Part OnePart Two. and Part Three.
  12. A Cemetery Interlude: Part One and Part Two.
  13. Powder Blue Fur Doll: Part One, Part Two, and Part Three.
  14. A Milky Interlude 
  15. Rock Out, Cock Out/ Hang Out, Wang Out: Part OnePart Two, and Part Three.

Without a strong structural narrative, this project was more about shifting images and the kaleidoscope of identity. Refusing to be just one thing, straining against the confines of limiting labels, and trying on a multitude of guises were just some of the themes at work. Escapism was another integral aspect informing the journey, and we’ll escape to a time twenty years ago in our next post… 

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Friday Night Filler Diller

Is anyone who may be reading this old enough to remember Phyllis Diller? She was a comedian in the 60’s and 70’s whose work was so hysterical her mark bled into the 80’s. It’s a different kind of comedy compared to what the kids are accustomed today. A kinder comedy, perhaps, but just as killer. Witness her roast of Lucille Ball below. Happy Friday!

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#TinyThreads: An Insignificant Series

As we segue into the spring and summer seasons, please remember that it’s better just to lightly steam linen garments, never iron. Part of linen’s charm is in its scrotum-like appearance

#TinyThreads

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Sky With Clouds and a Little Hope

The light is magical when it illuminates the clouds, and the sky behind them turns a bit deeper in blue. 

Like clouds of cotton candy.

Whimsy eludes me at the moment. 

The notion of it will have to do. 

Enjoy your Friday, and your weekend.

The Divine Diva invites you for a cocktail again tomorrow… 

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Summer Whispers…

With spring hesitating to show off her true finery, I find myself feeling wistful for summer. It’s a bit soon but the heart wants what it wants when it wants it. There’s nothing so terribly wrong in wishing for a slightly warmer and sunnier clime than we’ve had of late. To bide the time, a little link list of summers that have come before:

Last year’s Coquette Summer was a smash in many ways, most of which got written up here. 

A sad summer was looked back upon here.

The summer of 2022 was so fun that it had not just one recap post but this second one as well.

The summer of 2021 seemed less fun but that didn’t stop it from getting a part two too.

I am closing out this look back with the summer of 2020, which was billed as insane and must have truly been such, because it came with a whopping third post.  

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Worn Magnolias

These sad magnolia blossoms were stopped in their almost-beautiful tracks by some snow and wind, and as spring stalls in her arrival we are left with brown-tipped and ice-ravaged blooms. It’s a dangerous business blooming at this time of the year, and I have great admiration for those plants that brave the treacherous thing that is spring in these parts. 

Respect. 

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Anniversary Accommodations

Following this problematic incident at the Newbury, we went on the hunt for a new hotel for our 15th anniversary weekend in Boston. A few years ago, while Sherri and Skip’s family were staying at the condo, Kira and I booked a room at the Fairmont Copley Plaza, and it was one of the best hotel stays I’ve had in Boston. On that windy April weekend, the Fairmont was a welcoming beacon of warmth, steeped in beautiful history, and bound to Boston tradition. 

Rightly billed as ‘Boston’s Most Celebrated Address’, the Fairmont Copley Plaza has been the Grand Dame of Boston since opening in 1912. Whenever I’m in town I will take a stroll through the opulent lobby, checking out whatever magnificent floral arrangements they have on display, and catching a glimpse of the majestic golden lions that stand sentry at the main entrance. 

While the scale and atmosphere of the Fairmont Copley Plaza is indeed grand, those working at guest services make every stay an intimate and individual experience. No matter how glorious the surroundings may be, the mark of a good hotel will always and only ever be found in the staff who make the stay feel like an extension of home.

This was also the site of my Easter bunny trauma resolution, so it holds a special space in my heart. Andy was there for that, and he’ll be by my side for the next set of events scheduled there. 

When looking for accommodations for our upcoming anniversary celebration in Boston, we considered a few places that played a part in our original wedding weekend, but none checked all the boxes that the Fairmont Copley Plaza did, so I reserved a suite as my anniversary gift to Andy. It has all the markings of a new set of memories about to be made in these hallowed halls. 

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Dazzler of the Day: Jennifer Tilly

She was the effervescent injection of fun energy into this otherwise-lackuster season of ‘The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills’ but she will always hold a special place in my heart for her Oscar-nominated turn in ‘Bullets Over Broadway’. Jennifer Tilly has been thrilling audiences for years, and based on the glimpse we got of her fabulous life this past season, she’s made her daily existence into a work of art, hence this Dazzler of the Day crowning. 

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Crocus Pocus

Every year I forget we have this single crocus corm, and every year it takes me by pleasant surprise as it comes into bloom, that is when I’m lucky enough to capture it before the lingering winter weather turns it to mush or some greedy chipmunk plucks it in its pretty prime. This year it managed to find a pocket of sun and warmth (before the latest shower of snow and cold weather) in which to bloom, and fate had me walking in the side yard to spot its glorious color amid a landscape of browns and grays. 

For all its whimsical magic, the way it takes me by surprise every year, there is also something comforting and reassuring about the notion of tradition and repetition. In a world that feels less stable by the day, nature reminds that she will not be swayed or rushed or nudged or defied. Whenever I get bogged down by the mess that we humans are making of things, I return to nature and the lessons she has always taught us when we care enough to stop and listen.

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Skies of Maxfield Parrish

A dreamy spring finds a sky that complements its dreaminess

Think the ‘Lover‘ color theme from that Taylor Swift era

Think the background of the mural behind the King Cole Bar at the St. Regis in New York. 

Here we have the whimsical addition of a moon as it was encroaching on achieving full status – this would become the Pink Moon – fitting for a sky featuring clouds hinting at pink.

Some days the sky feels more like a painting – muted, soft, impossibly beautiful. 

Or maybe some days the paintings are like the sky – muted, soft, impossibly beautiful. 

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#TinyThreads: An Insignificant Series

The Last of Us‘ has taken over from ‘The White Lotus‘ as the only television I’m watching right now (ok, with the guilty exception of the reunion episodes of ‘The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills‘). And truth be told, all of it is just a waiting game for the new season of ‘The Gilded Age’.

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More Dreamy Music for the Season

We need spring and we need it yesterday. 

In the hopes that it is on the way, here is a dreamy vibe to musically invite the sun back to stay a while. 

Saint Etienne also performed this glorious summer song that personified the sunniest season decades ago. It still bring summer to mind whenever I hear it. It is the sound of hope and light and water…

Dry your eyes, boyThere’s no need to be sadForget about yesterdayAnd the bad times that you’ve had
You’ve loved and lost andNow you’re feeling so blueBut can’t you see it’s meWho really loves you…

You’re too youngTo say you’re through, love
And I’ll be differentI’ll be different, boy, yeah
You’re too young to sayYou’re through, love, through with love
I promise youI swear to youOoh, I promise you (It’s only springtime)Yeah, oohIt’s only springtime…

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#TinyThreads: An Insignificant Series

One day I want to make peace with a shaggy dough.

But not today.

#TinyThreads

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