Author Archives: Alan Ilagan

Road to Summer

A dip in temperatures has stalled spring again, as the nights descend back into the 40’s. It’s quite disheartening, though I won’t waste any more time lamenting such a predicament. With the moon exerting its full pull, and Mercury in retrograde right around the corner, one does better by not getting bogged down in the things we can’t control. Like the weather. Or the slow walk of spring. 

The road to summer isn’t always as pretty as what I managed to capture here, but it’s full of hope, even when it’s cold and rainy. Sometimes that works to make summer sweeter. Spring holds back and hesitates, with its moody moons and raucous retrograde, and we tread carefully, with mindfulness and meticulous motion. 

 

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Floral Vibrance

When you need a jolt of inspiration, sometimes a strongly-hued flower will do. These colorful daisies – not sure of variety or scientific name – did that for me when the skies rolled gray and the light dimmed with the lateness of the day. They say more, and say it more eloquently, than these cumbersome words ever could. 

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Dazzler of the Day: John Cho

Bringing the term ‘MILF’ to the masses may not be the most striking accomplishment of John Cho’s already-epic career, but it definitely earned him a pop-culture footnote for all-time. Better than that is his impressive body of work, with stellar appearances in such films as ‘Searching’, ‘Star Trek’, ‘Columbus’, ‘Yellow’, ‘Better Luck Tomorrow’, MILF-origin movie ‘American Pie’ and its sequels, as well as the ‘Harold & Kumar’ series. Today he earns his first Dazzler of the Day for his multi-talented entertainment pizzazz and acumen. 

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Super Flower Blood Moon

Something called the Super Flower Blood Moon rose early this morning, coming just in time to greet a new period of Mercury in Retrograde, so I need to simply hide away from the world until June 22. Slightly problematic for all that must be done in that time, but such is the pull of the universe. God help us one and all. 

Today’s full moon – super and floral and bloody – will likely wreak havoc with plans and non-plans alike, throwing wrenches in the rigid thought-process of any proper Virgo. I hate this sort of thing but I’m much better at dealing with the snafus now than I was in previous times. We’ve had over a year of said snafus and I don’t see them ending any time soon. Besides, this is life. Full moons and Mercury in retrograde are just the chaotic portions of it. Sometimes they angle to imbue the moment with import, something exciting and inspiring. The question is how we channel that frantic energy and put it to use instead of allowing it to muck everything up. Make peace with the chaos. Embrace the unpredictable and varying nature of life. Things run much soother that way, even when they don’t. 

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The Most Dainty Lilac

I’m the first to admit to being a delicate fucking flower, and dainty as shit to boot, which is why the Korean lilac is one of my favorite shrubs. It’s in full bloom in the garden right now, and I’ve established three decent-sized specimens, scattered strategically to offer three separate sections a delicious pool of perfume. The blooms, despite all the macro-work here, are tinier and daintier than the native American lilac, and arrive after that better-known shrub finishes its bloom. The effect is a more summer-like plant, that will also throw out the occasional re-bloom if you’re lucky. The leaves are also of smaller stature than the common American counterpart, lending the whole plant a more delicate and elegant visage. 

There is a little more red in the bloom color, lending it more a pink shade than true lilac, another way it separates itself from the more bombastic flower which most of us recall from childhood memories. I like the way it extends the lilac season, and the way it stays on the summer side of spring, nudging the season into the sunnier path of heat and warmth. 

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Dazzler of the Day: P!nk

P!nk occupies a sparkling spot in the pop culture firmament, and she’s one of those artists who has a bottomless pile of hit songs that go so far back you forget how much goodness there is in such a body of work. She recently won this year’s Billboard Music Icon Award, which is why she’s back on everyone’s mind – but to so many she never left, and I admire that kind of resilience and power. She earns her first Dazzler of the Day just for being herself for an eternity in the pop music game. 

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Lowering Expectations

After missing last year’s BroSox Adventure, both Skip and I are doing our best to temper our excitement and expectations for our Return to Boston next month. Lower expectations are the best and smartest route to take when emotionally prepping for a weekend away these days. We’ve had one too many events canceled over the last year plus, so I’ll be content with a simple weekend in my favorite city. 

Truth be told, it’s never the big bombastic events and moments that make up the most resonant memories I keep of Boston – it’s the quiet in-between sections, the down-time that occupies the majority of a weekend away. A simple selection of croissants from Cafe Madeleine, or the early afternoon siesta that somehow seems to happen even when it’s never scheduled. The casual looseness of a little pied-à-terre tucked away on the second floor of a brownstone, looking out over a gurgling fountain… the simple minutes of stillness that border on mindfulness… the feeling of being completely removed from the world while in the center of the city… this is Boston when the summer slips into place. 

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Dazzler of the Day: Troye Sivan

Singer, songwriter and actor Troye Sivan marks their debut as Dazzler of the Day. There’s a fine line between Hunk and Dazzler, but Troye straddles the line with perfect panache. Besides, you ca’t go wrong with a guy in a thong, so this is your Dazzler of the Day: Troye Sivan. Check out their enchanting website here.

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Good Morning Albany Recap

This colorful homage to Nipper is one of several scattered throughout downtown Albany, and thanks to its artistic bark, this may be my favorite. As we barrel into the end of May, good things are in the works – let’s get on with the recap so we can move forward. There’s a full Flower Moon this Wednesday, so I’ll be laying low…Be careful and watch yourselves…

The Pesky & the Pretty.

Palette of spring.

Lavender light.

Unidentified freshness.

The dawn of pool season.

An Ajuga carpet.

Night time is the right time

The speckled glove of a fox.

Taking naked pictures.

A floral portal to the past.

Dazzlers of the Day included: Kirk Acevedo, Leslie Jones, Andy Cohen, Letitia James, Brian Tyler Cohen,  and Ken Jeong.

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Floral Link to the Past

While Andy may better know his way around automobiles and kitchen stuff, I’m the master in the garden. Sometimes, the master has much to learn, and that was the case when I happened upon Andy’s weigela at his old house. It bloomed prolifically at this time of the year, beginning a cavalcade of pink that lasted a solid week or two, especially if nights stayed cool and there was enough moisture in the air. I asked him what it was and he said he thought it was a Weigela. It was the first and only time he knew the name of a plant before I did. 

When we moved into our current home, and the first spring began to reveal which plants were in the backyard, I watched as a rather plain-leaved bush sprouted. It’s form was somewhat fountain-like, similar to a forsythia. Nearby, a Japanese maple unfurled its fine maroon leaves. Carpets of pachysandra extended well beyond where we would eat them. The shrub I couldn’t identity slowly revealed more of itself as the warm weather arrived. Buds appeared, and I recalled the Weigela. A few days later they bloomed pink as seen here – a standard variety that made its way around the upstate New York landscaping. It felt like a link to the past, blooming in our future backyard. 

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Naked Pictures

It’s been a while since we’ve had some male nudity on this blog, not for any other reasons than the regular evolution of taste and style, cultural tone, and the gradual trajectory of such an ancient website. Moving deeper into my forties I find myself spending less time on the superficial and frivolous – two founding aspects of this site – and more on items that defy egotistical self-examination or silly frills. Not that I would begrudge anyone, including myself, the indulgence a pursuit in such frills might produce. But that’s getting a little deep for a Sunday post, so I turn your attention to the brilliant Moira Rose, always one with a striking assembly of words and wisdom. 

“Take a thousand naked pictures of yourself now.” ~ ‘Schitt’s Creek’

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The Speckled Glove of a Fox

A fox would not be entirely unwelcome in our yard at any time, especially considering the abundance of rodents the last few years have brought into our neighborhood. Foxgloves have long been a magical plant, one that I’ve mostly ignored growing for their unreliable growing pattern. Mostly biennial, they depend on spreading their second-year seed, leading to unpredictable clumps of future foxgloves, assuming they safely germinate. Too much chance in a world where chance is never a safe friend. 

That said, I’ve been embracing such unpredictability, so maybe this is a good time to sow a few of these and give them their first year of leaves for a floriferous show next year. Slowly, we begin to plan ahead. Slowly, we feel the way to a future. In the speckled loveliness of a fox’s glove… 

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Night-time Right-time

“In the night time (Night tiiiiimmme) oh baby that’s the right time…”

Try as I might, I cannot figure out which 80’s relic that catchy little bit originates from, and so I’m left leaving it out of this post. Instead, feast your eyes upon the pool at night, where and when so much summer magic and splendor occurs. We are lucky to have it open already, to make up for last year’s sucky season. Jump in and join the party… 

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Dazzler of the Day: Ken Jeong

When comedy and intelligence meet, it’s a profoundly wondrous thing, and for some reason it still takes people by surprise that two entities can so brilliantly co-exists, one feeding into the other. Dr. Ken Jeong exemplifies this, in his career and life, as succinctly described on his Twitter bio: “Come for the fart jokes, stay for the science-based, peer-reviewed public health & medical information.” He is crowned Dazzler of the Day thanks to his many contributions not only to the entertainment world, but to everything he has done for humanity. He’s spent a lifetime making people laugh, and making the world better for everyone. See the long list of his current endeavors here

EXCLUSIVE – Ken Jeong speaks on stage at the Television Academy’s Creative Arts Emmy Awards at Microsoft Theater on Saturday, Sept. 12, 2015, in Los Angeles. (Photo by Phil McCarten/Invision for the Television Academy/AP Images)

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Ajuga Carpet

One of the best ground-covers if you want a touch of blue/purple majesty at this time of the year is Ajuga, commonly known as bugleweed. The weed part is apt for its aggressive tendency, something typically valued in a ground-cover. I appreciate it best up-close and contained, so I allow other gardeners to grow it, then admire it away from my limited yard, which doesn’t have the space for such rampant behavior. 

A little post for a little plant with a lot of spreading power. Saturdays that show promise should be that way. 

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