The Bros Are Back in Boston

Last year marked the tenth anniversary of our BroSox Adventures, so Skip and I went all out with an extra-long weekend documented here and here. This year we are getting back to basics – no extravagant theme or agenda, no months of planning – just me and my good friend taking in a Red Sox game (no matter how badly they might suck right now – the Fenway franks are still the best anywhere).

Today we are headed back to Boston for our 11th year of this cherished tradition. Check out the links below to see how far we’ve come.

The BroSox Adventures

BroSox Adventure 2015: Part One, Part Two and Part Three.

BroSox Adventure 2016: Preamble, Part One and Part Two.

BroSox Adventure 2017: Part One and Part Two.

BroSox Adventure 2018

BroSox Adventure 2019: Part One, Part Two, Part Three and Part Four.

BroSox Adventure 2020: Canceled, like everything that year, due to COVID.

BroSox Adventure 2021: Part One and Part Two.

BroSox Adventure 2022

BroSox Adventures 2023

BroSox Adventures 2024: Part One and Part Two.

BroSox Adventures 2025: Part One and Part Two.

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A Yemeni Cafe Moment…

…and by moment, I mean a three-hour meet-up with Suzie where we did just about everything but the intended task of learning mahjong. The lovely Qamaria Cafe in Latham provided the backdrop and the deliciousness seen here (hello again, honeycomb dessert with pistachio drizzle) for our fun get-together. Based on our initial examination of a small sampling of mahjong tiles, we realized we weren’t about to learn that while in the workforce, but we will slowly make a dent in acclimating ourselves to the game in preparation for when we exit the workforce. (Some sooner than others.) All in all, it was a good meeting.

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Dazzler of the Day: Shoshana Bean

Beloved Broadway star Shoshana Bean is fresh off a Tony win for her performance in ‘The Lost Boys’ – as Lucy Emerson, she provides the emotional core and light in a show that dwells largely in darkness. Bean has been a Broadway favorite for years, having made stunning turns in ‘Wicked‘, ‘Hairspray‘, ‘Funny Girl’, ‘Hells Kitchen’ and ‘Mr. Saturday Night’. Making full use of her vocal talents, Bean has also released several albums and EPs, including her latest work ‘Only Smoke’. Check out her website here for further evidence of her brilliance and this long-overdue Dazzler of the Day crowning.

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Hoya Oh Boya

Despite having been obsessed with houseplants since I was a wee lad, I’ve never gotten into Hoyas. They seem to inspire a fervid passion in certain plant collectors and enthusiasts, but they’ve largely avoided my interest. I’ve never been a huge fan of the trailing houseplant – the trellises they enjoy too often read as clutter in my annoying Virgo’s mind. Lately, however, I’ve been charmed by the Hoya’s winning attributes – their flowers and pretty leaves, the way some of their nectar is sweet, how some of their perfume is intoxicating. The wide variety of cultivars and forms are also infinitely interesting. Coming into a new interest and passion well past the halfway mark of life is a reminder of how much excitement there is yet to be had in new discoveries.

A few weeks ago I procured my very first Hoya – the Hoya pubicalyx. It’s a very little plant at the moment, the better to acclimate and raise it from the very beginning. In certain houseplant folklore, the Hoya is considered to be a symbol of everlasting affection, love, and protection of home. All good things in this treacherous world.

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Dazzler of the Day: Sydney James Harcourt

Part of the dazzlingly-reimagined ‘Cats: The Jellicle Ball’ reinvigoration currently back on the prowl on Broadway, Sydney James Harcourt earns his first Dazzler of the Day crowning thanks to his charismatic portrayal of Rum Tum Tugger. No stranger to the treading and tearing up the boards, Harcourt has also been in ‘Hamilton‘ and ‘The Lion King’, ‘Girl From the North Country’ and ‘American Idiot’.

(PS – He also, ahem, ‘bartended’ for Andy Cohen on Watch What Happens Live!)

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Gratuitous Harry Styles Post

Harry Styles has been pumping out his disco-lite hits from his latest album ‘Kiss All the Time’ while donning short-shorts and tanks and pulling out all the funky stops. He’s tantalized the world before and gotten buck naked in movies as evidenced here and not-quite-here. Enjoy the moves, enjoy the music, enjoy the Styles.

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The Biggest Failure of this Website

Way back when I was planning this website over two decades ago, blogs were relatively new. I had grandiose and impossibly-ridiculous ideas of how I wanted ALANILAGAN.com to appear, none of which was possible. First, I wanted ambient music in the background and shifting light schemes. Second, I wanted fragrance, pumped out of everyone’s computer to complement whatever the current blog post was. Third, I wanted smoke (well, just some water vapor) to accompany the fragrance. I was going for an entire sensory experience. After discussions with my first webmaster, none of those wishes would come to be granted (or even possible) so I compromised and took up the challenge of writing the atmosphere I wanted to convey.

Since that time, many advances have been made on the website front, but I still can’t emit fragrance or smoke from your lap top or phones. That means this blog post on jasmine blooms must be a thing of description, a thread of words to wind its way into your mind versus your nose. A sweet classic white floral, jasmine’s perfume is tempered by a freshness, an element of green that keeps it from becoming too cloying, too sweet. It’s difficult to capture that outside of the natural scent, so I’m not a big fan of perfumes that proclaim to be jasmine – only the real deal will do. And maybe that’s something I should have realized from the beginning – there is just no approximating certain fragrances, and my initial attempt to do so was probably best left unfulfilled.

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Flare of Flower and Foliage

Some plants whisper.

Some plants shout.

And some plants scream and stomp and smash the senses until they gain notice.

This plant is one of the latter, thanks to its flaming florals and fiery foliage.

It’s a powerful combination, proving the old adage that more is so much more.

Whenever I shrink away from doing something that scares me, or wearing something I think might be too much, I think of a plant like this, and I feel empowered, and remember that adage.

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Honoring My Niece and Nephew

My niece and nephew were inducted into the National Honor Society last week, so I wanted to give these amazing young people a shout-out for being such stand-out students in addition to just being such good peeps. It’s not easy growing up in this world – I think it might be the hardest time to be a kid at the rate and the route in which this country is heading.

Emi and Noah give me some hope that things will turn around – and they’re turning into decent young adults who continue to make our family proud.

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The Pinnacle of the Peony Parade

It’s one of the best weeks in the garden, as most of our peonies are in full bloom. We usually miss part of the show because we’re typically in Maine when they start, but things are so late this year we got to see every bloom as they opened – a gift and a bit of a silver-lining moment for the delay in good weather.

This variety is probably the most color-saturated and vibrant of our collection, though it lacks in that heavy heavenly peony fragrance – one of nature’s trade-offs I suppose: to get something, you have to give something.

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Madonna’s Back, Crown Intact

Holy fucking Goddess.

She is so, so back.

After some painful years, Madonna is poised to return to the pop culture firmament with this delicious introductory slice of her upcoming ‘Confessions II’ album – long-awaited follow-up to 2005’s ‘Confessions on a Dance Floor‘, and her first album of new material sine 2019’s ‘Madame X’. The teaser film featuring tantalizing snippets of music from the first half of the album was just released, and you need to see it below. In addition to some of the most arresting visuals we’ve seen from Madonna in recent years, the music sounds like the perfect accompaniment to a club night out – something this world needs now more than ever, even if it’s largely gone away.

The countdown to the album’s release date July 3, 2026 is officially ticking away, and I cannot wait…

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Hints of Summer in a Recap

Pink dahlias front and backend this weekly blog recap, and if you’ve missed any of the posts for the past week this is your chance to make up for that, and you should, because they’re all so pretty at this time of the year. (It’s also been a roller coaster of a week, and some of that insanity bled into these posts – enjoy!)

It began on this fucking day.

Why are people this stupid?

The passion of this flamboyant flower.

A cosmic love.

A hibiscus for everyone.

A mid-week memorializing of a Maine weekend began here.

And it concluded here.

Floral flotsam.

A grandly gratuitous half-naked Ben Cohen post.

Call me Mama.

Forget-me-not Friday will not be a regular thing.

The Lilac Robe.

A trio of trillium posts began with this entry.

Part two of the trillium trio injected some pink into the petals.

The final entry of the trillium trio got things all wet.

The creep of thyme.

A peony variation.

He-Man in stockings.

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He-Man in Stockings

These behind-the-scenes green-screen pics of Nicholas Galitzine as He-Man (and giving foot and stocking fetishists a field day) are just what this Sunday ordered.

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A Peony Variation

The Itoh peony is a cross between an herbaceous and a tree peony, and it’s a marvelous bridge between the bloom times for each. I also admire its handsome foliage, which stays mildew-free all season long, unlike its diva-like herbaceous cousins. They came into bloom this week, and only lasted a couple of days thanks to the high heat and heavy sun.

It was a quick blooming session – arriving late and leaving early – which is not how I like to roll, but nature won’t be denied. We bend with her, or we break.

The beauty that doesn’t last always feels more beautiful. An unfair act of childish disagreeableness. The steady and stalwart – the flowers that last for more than a season – are too dependable and consistent to be considered more than dull, and there’s something awful about that silliness.

These pretty Itoh peony blooms bring out deeper questions in need of deeper answers.

I’m ill-equipped to complete the job at hand.

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The Creep of Thyme

Thyme, thyme, thyme… see what’s become of me…

At the edge of the ocean, or at the edge of the land, an art museum sits looking out over a bluff. A garden is situated between the art and the sea, a placement that feels heartwarmingly apt: the garden as a bridge between art and nature. There is a bench for sitting while watching the ocean, but I’m more interested in what’s underneath it all. A patch of creeping thyme is beginning to cover a round rock. The little fuzzy thyme leaves and tiny pink flowers soften the rock’s edges, blurring the border between stone and soil.

This bit of creeping thyme reminds of the power and sway that flowers and beauty can hold over such stalwart things as rock and stone. They defeat by being pretty, gently surrounding a cold gray stone with fuzzy arms of warmth and loveliness. They embrace the immobile and unmoving rock with their love – given without expectation or the hope of love returned. The creep of thyme made beautiful, as in this creep of a song.

I don’t care if it hurts
I want to have control
I want a perfect body
I want a perfect soul
I want you to notice
When I’m not around
You’re so fucking special
I wish I was special

Thyme will spend the summer covering this rock, closing around its still stony heart. It offers softness and kindness – shade when it’s sunny and warmth when it’s windy. It is blanket and brother, caretaker and comforter, embrace and enchantress. It only cares to cocoon and love – its adoration feeds upon its own juxtaposition of hot and cold, hard and soft, interest and indifference.

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