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A Frosty Recap Made Hot By Adam Levine

The rollercoaster that is Northeast weather took a few ups and downs this past week, and quite frankly my mind is not quite equipped to make sense of it all. On a meteorologically stable day I can be prone to moodiness – throw in temperature shifts of 60 degrees from day to day and you’re looking at the makings of a mental/emotional vortex beyond the imaginings of your mind. Forewarned is fairwarned, especially when fair weather is not on the horizon. On with the Monday recap…

A simple but beautiful bouquet.

More beauty, honest beauty

A naked James McAvoy in motion. 

Virtual Sunday brunch.

February arrived without fanfare, but with a freeze.

Follow these Tiny Threads and keep warm. 

Shirtless malaise.

A One-Act Text Play.

Super Jock Post!

A shirtless Adam Levine took it off for his Super Bowl climax. 

Hunks of the Day included Bradley Cooper, Kyle Dean Massey, Ty Mitchell, Tyler Curry-McGrath, Aaron Tveit, Wilson Lai, Sean McVay, and Ted Rath.

 

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Winter Malaise

Discontent.

Ennui.

Rawness.

That pretty much sums up the last few days. Winter has settled in, the polar vortex has sent a magenta chill through the heart of the country, and despite a relatively healthy start to the year, the excitement and thrill of such a change of pace has dulled to a drudge-like burden. Still, we press onward…

Maybe such a malaise is the product not only of the winter season, but of getting older in general. Forty-three years of anything, especially living, can wear away at the wonder of the world. I’m trying to forge inspiration and interest with a new project, yet even that is proving challenging. It’s all about getting in the right mindset and being open to what the universe is whispering. Winter winds simply make it more difficult to listen.

I do my best to center myself. Yoga. Meditation. Burning incense.

I seek quiet and peace in a long, indulgently-hot shower scented with rosewater and accompanied by a candle. Andy delivers a bouquet of flowers – tulips and iris – while a hyacinth bulb in a vase of water is finally coming into fragrant bloom. It’s the closest thing we have to a garden right now.

The White Flower Farm spring catalog arrived a few days ago. I’ve been earmarking pages with ideas and plans, and when I’m done I’ll pass it along to Suzie to see if it sparks her perpetually-put-off dream garden. They’ve got the land and space to do it, but they’ve also got an enormous black walnut that makes things tricky. A raised bed might do the trick; otherwise a bit of research on what plants won’t be bothered by the walnut’s expansive spread will be needed.

That’s how to get through these days: living largely in the mind.

Daydreaming of sunnier scenes.

Plotting out garden plants.

Working on a new project.

Winding along the days of winter…

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The Shortest Longest Month: February

I know it’s technically short, but it feels so especially long. Our last full month of winter is upon us. Let’s get it over with – the sooner it starts, the sooner it’s over. This is usually a messy month. Snowstorms and freezing and thaws and birds and dirt and salt… winter’s ugliness at its worst with little hope on the horizon. We try to find comfort in cozy fireside scenes, folding ourselves into a book, dropping into a cup of hot tea, or ducking into a local greenhouse. (If you’re near an indoor botanical garden, what a lovely circumstance!) I tend to find cut flowers even more of a comfort now, and I noticed that the very first cut daffodils of the season are starting to appear in the market – their sunny shades and happy fragrance such welcome harbingers of a spring that still feels so far away.

February holds its own charms, even as it freezes and fusses, throwing snowy tantrums and pouting like a spoiled child. Such is the province of this month, when Valentine’s Day rears its silly head, past Presidents remind us of what used to be a glorious office, and the weather begins the roller coaster of high winter. Here’s a quick look-back at some other February incidents. 

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The Virtual Brunch Experiment

It didn’t quite make sense on paper. A virtual brunch in upstate New York and Florida. Abelskivers, Harvey Wallbanger cake, fried spam, and garlic fried rice. Oh, and Pennsylvania Dutch beets and hard-boiled eggs. Above all else, the Senor Breakfast Sandwich.

When faced with the prospect of trying to bridge the distance between New York and Florida, where Elaine is enjoying warmer temps and (for the most part) sunnier days for the winter, I thought it might be fun to try a virtual brunch and loop her into our Sunday morning chaos. Suzie, Pat, Oona and Milo joined in, as did my parents and Andy, and somehow, in spite of some minor technical difficulties, it worked out better than expected.

Food preparation was key – as was enlisting the efforts of some of the guests. Suzie made not one bundt cake, but two (including the dreamy Wallbanger), and brought her magical egg-frying pan, and some ripe avocadoes. Mom brought her quiche, and Elaine served up some French toast from Florida. Since Dad was in attendance, I also fried up some Spam (which I was told was traditional Filipino breakfast fare – even if he and I had never had it) and a pan of garlic fried rice. I love a savory/spicy dish in the morning, and I have to say that, when fried up right and given some pepper, a piece of Spam is not the worst thing I have ever tasted. Consider it our substitute for bacon and sausage.

My second attempt at abelskivers didn’t go quite as well as the first, mostly because I was being so very precise that first time. That’s the way recipes usually work with me, and why one should be careful for the first few times you’re making something new. Abelskivers also take some finesse and careful timing to do right, so I didn’t quite have it down during a busy brunch. They tasted well enough though, even if their form was less than perfect. (They are not pictured here.)

The FaceTime call with Elaine worked better than expected too, and it was nice to have her join in the festivities since she is always missed during her winter months in Florida. Usually we just count the hours until her return in the spring – this experiment proved another avenue of communication in real time, and sets us up to do it again before the winter ends. We also got a virtual tour of her Florida digs, where it’s warm even when it rains.

As for that next brunch, I’m thinking of something slightly more traditional – maybe a frittata with a big platter of home fries, or these roasted potatoes with their decadent crumble of feta and fresh oregano. Better yet, I may just order a breakfast pizza from the nearby market and call it an easy morning. The best part of brunch is the company, the rest is just gravy. (Oooh, sausage gravy… and biscuits! That may be our next menu sorted.)

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The Last Gasp of January: Recap

This week we usher January 2019 on its way, closing out the first full month of winter. Not a bad beginning for the wretched season, though it’s far from over. Still, the beginning is often the hardest, and we are beyond it now .On with the past week, so we can get a move on the next one…

A new favorite restaurant in Boston: Whaling in Oklahoma

These TinyThreads weaved their wild way through this site. 

Shirtless male celebrities headed up this post to warm you up. 

This Dry January made possible through mocktail madness

They sang from the diaphragm a lot: review of ‘Spamalot.’ 

Say yes to abelskivers.

Madonna briefly went back to her roots. 

A Boston winter respite, Part One and Part Two.

A culinary & social experience: our virgin virtual brunch

The Hunks of the Day kept things hot, including Vincent Rodriguez, Cheyenne Parker, Jake Choi, Paul Alexander Nolan, Hung Vanngo, and Rami Malek.

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A Very Snowy Recap

Winter, oh harsh and unforgiving winter! We hear you! We see you! We know that you are here! 

If you’ve been able to dig yourself out of the white stuff (I watched the snow plows and my hero/husband Andy do the heavy work from a safe and warm vantage point: our conversation couch) then I congratulate you and welcome you to enjoy a brief respite in the form of our Monday recap. Sit for a spell, grab a cup of coffee or tea, and warm yourself by the fiery posts encapsulated in this quick rundown. Winter is not for wimps.

For some light-hearted whimsical frivolity (after all, why else are you here?) follow the #TinyThreads back to their beginning. It’s a fun ride. 

This is gonna leave a mark.

A Valentine’s Day gift wish.

Their ears were watching us

The passing of a great poet.

My Mom’s birthday.

Bringing the Madge-ic back

The Madonna Timeline returned with ‘Secret Garden’ from the ‘Erotica’ era.

My egg is so much better than Twitter’s egg.

Zac Efron got all sweaty and shirtless for your viewing pleasure. 

A forest of dead Christmas trees.

My very first cleanse, of sorts.

Keeping things nice and toasty for this wintry week were the Hunks of the Day: Mike Parrow, Evan Betts,  Lin-Manuel Miranda, Jeff Leatham, Colton Underwood, Billy Porter, Harry Shum Jr., and Dan Levy.

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A Dry January: My First Cleanse

New Year’s Resolutions and cleanses and all that nonsense have always held absolutely no allure for me. They don’t last, and the people who seem to espouse them the most are the ones who deny ever saying such tripe by the time February ends. This year, however, I’m trying my hand at a bit of a cleanse, and a booze-free January. In truth, I started before last year ended, so technically it’s not a New Year’s resolution. Maybe that’s why is hasn’t been that difficult to do.

Despite most outward appearances, I’m a pretty disciplined person. This blog hasn’t received daily updates from a slacker for the past fifteen years. When I set my mind to something, it gets done. For the past few weeks, that’s been about getting in better shape and making it a dry January. Each feeds into the other, so it’s been working out well, and perhaps I’ll carry it forward into February as well. (I’m not going to lie: I really just want to fit into my former pants because I have too many to afford going up another waist size.) But I do also want to get a little healthier. The body doesn’t bounce back like it did in my 20’s. Or even 30’s.

Luckily, a healthier lifestyle will also inform a new project, which is in its earliest embryonic state. A complete turnaround from the PVRTD project of last year, it’s going to be a doozy of a different feather. But that’s far, far in the future. The task at hand is a combination of better eating habits, more exercise, and some meditation both mindful and mindless. That’s enough for now.

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The Egg: Before & After

There is some photograph of an egg that just broke Twitter records for most liked or most tweeted or most ejaculated on image in history. Blah and blech. These photos are much more interesting to me. Notice the cherry blossom bowl! Notice the dimple in the egg white! Notice the passage of time from one pic to the next! This is action. This is life. This is the beginning and the end in two metaphoric images. 

Now go follow me on Twitter to see all my stupid tweets. 

Or better yet, make it Instagram. I’m cheekier there

 

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Tiny Threads: An Insignificant Series

Now that this post is already out there, let me just say how much I love Maille cornichons.

Let the ads commence.

#TinyThreads

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The Watchful Ear of Big Brother

A few days ago I was standing in the kitchen asking Andy to pick up a jar of Maille cornichons. My phone was three rooms away, blocked by three walls (but apparently not powered down). I’ve never asked for these cornichons before, nor have I written about or referenced them online in any form. I didn’t even know how to pronounce the name, giving up after two feeble attempts and pointing at the jar so Andy could see what I was talking about.

The next morning I received my first-ever sponsored ad on Facebook for Maille Black Mustard Truffle Mustard. We don’t have Alexa, our computers were off, and Andy is not even on Facebook, so there would be no way to make any sort of connection between us for this to happen. Coincidence? Big Brother? Big Sister?

I’m told it’s a possible combination of our phones or computers being on. I don’t think so. Andy didn’t even hear or understand that I was saying ‘Maille’ so I don’t see how my phone three rooms away could. If his phone was picking it up, how did it end up on my FaceBook page? He doesn’t have a FaceBook account.

Anyway, it’s not that big a deal, just puzzling. I’ve broadcast much more revealing things than demanding a new jar of cornichons.

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Underwear-Clad Recap in the Middle of January

Almost halfway through the month of January, we pause for our weekly Monday morning recap. The holidays are already an ever-dimming memory, while winter jabs and pokes at us with icy pincers. We are in a holding pattern until it’s time to stir in March. On with the recap…

For shits and giggles, check out the #TinyThreads series. When you reach the end of one, click the “#TinyThreads” link at the bottom of the brief posts and follow them back. It’s fun. Try it. If you’re patient you can follow all the way back to the very first TT post. 

All fruit, no labor.

My 9th anniversary of being on Twitter came and went. 

I prefer flora to fauna.

Cristiano Ronaldo in wet underwear.

Mary Poppins returned with a treasure trove of childhood memories. 

The last days of a Christmas tree.

A lovely pianist duel/duet.

Get a Clue

Another project, already.

Doing their best to keep things warm were the Hunks of the Day: Brian Kenny, Austin Wallis, Ed Krassenstein, Brian Krassenstein, John David Washington and Keith Laue.

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Beauty & Work

This will be a bit of a working weekend in Boston, as I begin preliminary preparation for the next project. That’s the fun part, though, so it’s not really work in the sense of drudgery or duty. This is the time when I have a few slim notions in my head, a few themes knocking about and looking for direction. Here is where I will rely on the universe to nudge me in the right direction and help a more definitive idea etch itself out in my mind. It always does, in relative ease too. I’ll suddenly see a motif everywhere I look – a certain color palette repeated throughout the day and in the most disparate places. The same song will play on the radio, then in a store, then on the computer. A book will be on display in the bookstore then show up on my social media feed then be mentioned by a friend. All of these coincidences I will take as signs, and they invariably lead me to the creative project I will conjure next. The key is to be open and observant. That means being ready to listen and be quiet. It is, oddly enough, my resting stance, so this is familiar, comfortable territory.

This also means that during a time of creation the blog takes a backseat to other endeavors. Usually when that happens I’ll populate posts with pictures of shirtless male celebrities or the like and viewership will increase dramatically. The more substantial and meaningful my posts are, the less they are viewed. Sigh.

As we gear up for that lull, bookmark this page so you can revisit these projects if you’d like. The photos – almost all here – are throwbacks to a more innocent, youthful period of a slimmer stomach, darker hair, and relative carefree attitude. May we return there soon…

PREVIOUS PROJECTS:

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A Clue at the Palace

Andy marked the date down weeks ago. It’s one of our favorite silly movie, but unlike Andy I’ve never been lucky enough to see it on the big screen. This Monday that will change, as ‘Clue’ is playing at the Palace Theatre, and after a dinner at dp we’ll be taking part in the madcap murderous mayhem.  Everyone has a favorite line or zinger from this movie – mine is “I am determined to enjoy myself!” Along those lines everyone also has a favorite character that they most resemble. Such broad archetypes never really manage to encompass the more contradictory and complex among us, but if I had to choose I’d be a cross between Mrs. Peacock (those glorious feathers!) and Ms. Scarlet. Andy thinks I’m closer to Mrs. White, but for the sake of him and his own… well, you know… he’d better hope he’s wrong.

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The Return of Mary Poppins

It would be impossible to come up with anything, no matter how perfect, to match the storied history that Suzie and I have (half-real, a quarter conjured, and a quarter, no doubt, make-believe) with Mary Poppins. It is one of the first memories I have with Suzie and it’s remained part of our legend and lore for over four decades. When a movie and its music is that deep in one’s lexicon, any sort of update, sequel, or related entity is doomed to pale in comparison. Happily, Ms. Poppins, and her whimsical lessons of life, manage to retain the magic and wonder of the original, and may just be the classic continuation to see the character through a new generation.

It helps immensely that the film revolves around a winning performance by Emily Blunt, and energetic support from Lin-Manuel Miranda. Guest turns by Meryl Streep, Noma Dumezweni, Colin Firth, Angela Lansbury, Dick Van Dyke, and a trio of preciously precocious but not grating children round things out in sparkling fashion. The costumes are deliciously exquisite – sumptuous in color and design – and the animation is seamlessly drawn in, whimsically enchanting for children and adults alike. The story is serviceable, and where it lacks the compelling family transformation of the first, a more somber undertone of loss runs through it, giving the grounding it needs for such fantastical flights of fancy. Mary Poppins is about delight and wonder, and how to conjure each in a world of dim adulthood. 

As Suzie and I sat there next to her kids, nearly forty years after we sat at a showing of the original, I pondered part of our journey. As they boarded a cartoon carriage onscreen and rode through a porcelain path of Royal Doulton, I thought of those happy moments beneath a grape arbor or wandering through the forest of a Renaissance fair. Of course I also recalled our first viewing of ‘Mary Poppins’ in the same mall. A finger crushed in the car window. A platter of fried clams. It meant more to us than it could to anyone else in the theater, but that’s the way it’s always been

 

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Nine on Nine

Given today’s nine-filled date, I was reminded that Twitter recently sent me notice that my 9thanniversary of having joined the social network came on New Year’s Day. (Guess I was bored at the family dinner and signed up to start tweeting about it.) So… nine whopping years of tweets… and nothing to show for it. I shudder to think how many years I’ve wasted on FaceBook… I came relatively late to the Instagram party, so I feel a bit better about that.

All of this makes me pause and take stock of how social media has become such a part of our lives. My formative years were spent without such stuff, and I’m better for it. Having worked in human resources for well over a decade, I’ve seen the changing shifts in job applicants, and it’s decidedly unimpressive. Gone are the days when one crafted an error-free cover letter or carefully-curated resume. Gone are the days of candidates who could attend an interview and actually engage in and follow a conversational thread. Some of it may be attributed to the way the current generation processes everything on their phones, not worrying about spelling full words or figuring out how to make sustained eye contact or simply focusing on a single topic for more than two minutes. But now I’m losing sight of the whole point of this nine-centric post (credit my burgeoning crotchety-old-man attitude – you knew it was coming – hell, it’s been coming for forty years).

What does one do for a Twitter anniversary? For starters, follow me: @alanilagan. Then never open the app again, because the only thing worse than Twitter is FaceBook.

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