As we segue into the spring and summer seasons, please remember that it’s better just to lightly steam linen garments, never iron. Part of linen’s charm is in its scrotum-like appearance.
April
2025
Sky With Clouds and a Little Hope
The light is magical when it illuminates the clouds, and the sky behind them turns a bit deeper in blue.
Like clouds of cotton candy.
Whimsy eludes me at the moment.
The notion of it will have to do.
Enjoy your Friday, and your weekend.
The Divine Diva invites you for a cocktail again tomorrow…
April
2025
Summer Whispers…
With spring hesitating to show off her true finery, I find myself feeling wistful for summer. It’s a bit soon but the heart wants what it wants when it wants it. There’s nothing so terribly wrong in wishing for a slightly warmer and sunnier clime than we’ve had of late. To bide the time, a little link list of summers that have come before:
Last year’s Coquette Summer was a smash in many ways, most of which got written up here.
A sad summer was looked back upon here.
The summer of 2022 was so fun that it had not just one recap post but this second one as well.
The summer of 2021 seemed less fun but that didn’t stop it from getting a part two too.
I am closing out this look back with the summer of 2020, which was billed as insane and must have truly been such, because it came with a whopping third post.
April
2025
Worn Magnolias
These sad magnolia blossoms were stopped in their almost-beautiful tracks by some snow and wind, and as spring stalls in her arrival we are left with brown-tipped and ice-ravaged blooms. It’s a dangerous business blooming at this time of the year, and I have great admiration for those plants that brave the treacherous thing that is spring in these parts.
Respect.
April
2025
Anniversary Accommodations
Following this problematic incident at the Newbury, we went on the hunt for a new hotel for our 15th anniversary weekend in Boston. A few years ago, while Sherri and Skip’s family were staying at the condo, Kira and I booked a room at the Fairmont Copley Plaza, and it was one of the best hotel stays I’ve had in Boston. On that windy April weekend, the Fairmont was a welcoming beacon of warmth, steeped in beautiful history, and bound to Boston tradition.
Rightly billed as ‘Boston’s Most Celebrated Address’, the Fairmont Copley Plaza has been the Grand Dame of Boston since opening in 1912. Whenever I’m in town I will take a stroll through the opulent lobby, checking out whatever magnificent floral arrangements they have on display, and catching a glimpse of the majestic golden lions that stand sentry at the main entrance.
While the scale and atmosphere of the Fairmont Copley Plaza is indeed grand, those working at guest services make every stay an intimate and individual experience. No matter how glorious the surroundings may be, the mark of a good hotel will always and only ever be found in the staff who make the stay feel like an extension of home.
This was also the site of my Easter bunny trauma resolution, so it holds a special space in my heart. Andy was there for that, and he’ll be by my side for the next set of events scheduled there.
When looking for accommodations for our upcoming anniversary celebration in Boston, we considered a few places that played a part in our original wedding weekend, but none checked all the boxes that the Fairmont Copley Plaza did, so I reserved a suite as my anniversary gift to Andy. It has all the markings of a new set of memories about to be made in these hallowed halls.
April
2025
Dazzler of the Day: Jennifer Tilly
She was the effervescent injection of fun energy into this otherwise-lackuster season of ‘The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills’ but she will always hold a special place in my heart for her Oscar-nominated turn in ‘Bullets Over Broadway’. Jennifer Tilly has been thrilling audiences for years, and based on the glimpse we got of her fabulous life this past season, she’s made her daily existence into a work of art, hence this Dazzler of the Day crowning.
April
2025
Crocus Pocus
Every year I forget we have this single crocus corm, and every year it takes me by pleasant surprise as it comes into bloom, that is when I’m lucky enough to capture it before the lingering winter weather turns it to mush or some greedy chipmunk plucks it in its pretty prime. This year it managed to find a pocket of sun and warmth (before the latest shower of snow and cold weather) in which to bloom, and fate had me walking in the side yard to spot its glorious color amid a landscape of browns and grays.
For all its whimsical magic, the way it takes me by surprise every year, there is also something comforting and reassuring about the notion of tradition and repetition. In a world that feels less stable by the day, nature reminds that she will not be swayed or rushed or nudged or defied. Whenever I get bogged down by the mess that we humans are making of things, I return to nature and the lessons she has always taught us when we care enough to stop and listen.
April
2025
Skies of Maxfield Parrish
A dreamy spring finds a sky that complements its dreaminess.
Think the ‘Lover‘ color theme from that Taylor Swift era.
Think the background of the mural behind the King Cole Bar at the St. Regis in New York.
Here we have the whimsical addition of a moon as it was encroaching on achieving full status – this would become the Pink Moon – fitting for a sky featuring clouds hinting at pink.
Some days the sky feels more like a painting – muted, soft, impossibly beautiful.
Or maybe some days the paintings are like the sky – muted, soft, impossibly beautiful.
April
2025
#TinyThreads: An Insignificant Series
‘The Last of Us‘ has taken over from ‘The White Lotus‘ as the only television I’m watching right now (ok, with the guilty exception of the reunion episodes of ‘The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills‘). And truth be told, all of it is just a waiting game for the new season of ‘The Gilded Age’.
April
2025
A Bearded Buttigieg
This shirtless post of Pete Buttigieg is dwarfed by the reaction to any shot of Pete Buttigieg with a beard. Nobody who frequents this blog seems mad about it.
{See also this couple of Dazzlers.}
April
2025
More Dreamy Music for the Season
We need spring and we need it yesterday.
In the hopes that it is on the way, here is a dreamy vibe to musically invite the sun back to stay a while.
Saint Etienne also performed this glorious summer song that personified the sunniest season decades ago. It still bring summer to mind whenever I hear it. It is the sound of hope and light and water…
Dry your eyes, boy
There’s no need to be sad Forget about yesterday And the bad times that you’ve hadYou’ve loved and lost andNow you’re feeling so blue But can’t you see it’s me Who really loves you…
You’re too young
To say you’re through, loveAnd I’ll be differentI’ll be different, boy, yeah
You’re too young to sayYou’re through, love, through with love
I promise you
I swear to you Ooh, I promise you (It’s only springtime) Yeah, ooh It’s only springtime…April
2025
A Dreamy Pastel Recap
Spring arrives in short, halted steps – retreating a bit with some wet snow, then advancing in tentative fashion – while we wait anxiously for things to warm up and give us a hint of sunnier days to come. The past week brought a full Pink Moon, and the requisite restless sleep and stressful exhaustion that accompanies such lunar stretches. That rollercoaster of a weekly recap begins now…
Spoiler alert: Buster Poindexter is NOT the same person as Al Franken.
Bonus shirtless Patrick Schwarzenegger post.
A monologue for this very moment.
Is Levina pronounced like ‘Regina’ or ‘vagina’?
This one goes out to those FOTUS voters who voted because the economy.
History repeating, ducks quacking.
April
2025
First World Whining
Do I even have the energy to build rapport with a new tailor?
I don’t feel like I do.
(And are we even in the first world anymore? I fear we’ve already slipped at least to second.)
My friend Anu asked me what the alternative to building rapport with a new tailor was, to which I replied I’d have to learn how to hem pants. Not a big deal, and I’d have saved myself hundreds of dollars in adjustments over the years, I just yawn thinking of the prospect. The other consideration is that my eyesight is nowhere near what it once was, and I don’t want to go blind like all the sewing nuns that came before me.
April
2025
Hot Nude Yoga (Minus the Heat & Nudity)
Back when I wrote freelance for Edge Media, I would get DVDs to review ñ some of which were fun (and then-expensive) such as a full season three of ‘Cheers’ that brought me way back to my childhood. (I was team Diane during her whole tumultuous run, as a prim and proper Virgo would be.)
One of those DVD sets was a compilation of Aaron Star’s ‘Hot Nude Yoga’ series, which was exactly as billed: a bunch of men doing nude yoga in their birthday suits. When it was released literally a couple of decades ago, it was relatively new and the gay man angle was a refreshing glimpse of what was happening far from the confines of upstate New York. While the scandalous notion of full-frontal male nudity may have been the main drawing card and point, the yoga practices were perfect for a beginner like myself, and I have been using the ‘Virgin‘ sequence on and off ever since. The days of me doffing clothing and joining in the naked method as prescribed have passed; I just can’t be bothered to get my kit off, especially in this winter-like weather, but the practice remains, and this past week I found myself returning to the poses and the deep breathing and the opportunity to add an hour of mindfulness to my day.
There was a time when I would automatically turn to a cocktail for help and support, especially during stressful situations. It’s been well over five years since I took a drink of alcohol, and my go-to stress-relief these days is meditation. The past few weeks have found me sleeping poorly and feeling stressed out more than usual, and I only noticed this in retrospect as I was on my third day of yoga. Somehow, without fully realizing or being cognizant of what I was doing, my coping mechanisms have evolved naturally into meditation and mindfulness. That’s a happy place to be, even in troubled times.
It’s also a place anyone can find if they work at it a bit every day. I started my meditation journey by doing it for two minutes a day. The trick is to be consistent, make it part of the daily routine, and build from there. After a week of two-minute daily meditations, go for three minutes. I was surprised how easily it came to increase my meditation time this way, and sitting in stillness and silence for fifteen minutes a day is a comfortable and quite welcome pause in the madness.