A Perfect Provincetown Dinner

 We asked our hosts for a good place to stop for a pre-dinner cocktail, somewhere where we could watch the afternoon light drop down over the harbor, and they wisely suggested the Harbor Lounge. Walking out onto the small pier, we stood over the water and watched the magical turn of the day into the evening.
Having visited Provincetown a number of times since my first trip there in 1995, I still can’t fathom how I’ve missed out on dining at The Mews, but it was a wait well worth it.
It’s always nice when the cocktail alchemy is as strong as the culinary alchemy, and in this case things started off wonderfully with this magnificent martini.
Yet as fond as I am of a libation, it couldn’t hold a candle to the food, which was arguably the best meal we’ve had in years. (I know, I always say that, but this time I mean it.) Andy ordered the tuna, which he whole-heartedly said was the best fish he has likely ever tasted.
I succumbed to the lobster risotto with asparagus, mushrooms, and truffle oil, a confection that melted instantly on the tongue, every flavor integral and individual enough to stand on its own, the freshness of ingredients and the flavors of their intermingling were nothing short of sublime. It was a gastronomical multiple-orgasm, winningly paired with a white wine that embellished every bite.

 

The saddest part came toward the end, when we both realized it would be a very long time before we had anything like this again. If nothing else happened the rest of our time in Provincetown, the trip was worth it for this meal alone.

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Upon Entering Provincetown

Provincetown opens its gates and arms to all visitors, welcoming them to the sea-surrounded town and instantly releasing all other worldly cares for the duration of a stay. This is the first time that Andy and I have been here together, and it was much too short. A day or two of decompression, to fully relax and get into the swing of things, would have been nice, but that was all we had, so the decompression period had to be condensed.
Fortunately, the spirit of P-town pervades and transforms the moment you reach this tail-end of the Cape. There is something calming and healing about the sea, even in a storm (which we thankfully did not have). As it was, the weather was perfectly sunny in the low 80’s, with a soft bay breeze – idyllic conditions that would remain for the length of our brief trip.
We arrived early enough to have a fish fry, and still have enough room for dinner later that evening, and then we strolled along Commercial Street before checking in to our hotel.
The landmarks were resplendent in the afternoon sun, and I was reminded of the most impressive aspect of Provincetown – the light. It is a well-renowned and well-deserved place for artists, because of that light. It is, at just about every point in the day, a magical thing.
And then there is the sea – but more on that later…
For now, we headed back to our lodgings to prepare for dinner.
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The Welcoming Rose of Provincetown

Tomorrow, the Provincetown photos begin… For now, the hint of a magnificent rose. I’d never seen coloring of this sort on a rose before. I passed this particular bloom a number of times over our days in that fair town, watching as its shades shifted, its hues deepening like a sunset over the passing hours. Like the rest of Provincetown, it casts its own spell, enchanting in a whimsical way.

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In Madonna’s Own Words

On the US opening night of her MDNA Tour, a few words from Madonna:

“My show
Is a journey
The journey of a soul from darkness to light
It is part cinematic musical theatre.
Part spectacle and sometimes intimate Performance art.

But above all it’s a journey
From darkness to light
From anger to love
from chaos to order.

It’s true there is a lot of violence in the beginning of the show and sometimes the use of fake guns – but they are used as metaphors.
I do not condone violence or the use of guns.
Rather they are symbols of wanting to appear strong and wanting to find a way to stop feelings that I find hurtful or damaging.  In my case it’s wanting to stop the lies and hypocrisy of the church, the intolerance of many narrow minded cultures and societies I have experienced throughout my life and in some cases the pain I have felt from having my heart broken.

Ultimately as we follow through the journey of my story,  the audience can see quite clearly what I see – That the enemy is within and the only way to survive Disappointment Disapproval Judgment Heartbreak Jealousy Envy And Hatred Is with Love -  not with revenge – not with guns and not with violence.

In spite of all the chaos and darkness and intolerance we seem to be encountering more and more in the world, We cannot allow our anger or bitterness to swallow us up.
We  come to understand that
There is an innate and pure love inside us all and we have to find a way to tap into it.

And we can’t do it by being victims or placing the blame or pointing the finger at  others.
But by recognizing that the enemy is within

And when we come to terms with it

And accept it

And struggle to change ourselves,

Then we can change the world without hurting anyone and we can inspire others to do the same.

When you watch a film there are usually good guys and bad guys to help illustrate this point,

Sometimes I play both.

I enjoy acting out this journey.

For none of us are perfect and we all have our own journey of growth to go on.

I know people can relate to it.
It’s very important to me as an artist  that my show not be taken out of context.

It must be watched with an open heart from beginning to end. I am sure if it is viewed this way,  the viewer will walk away feeling inspired, invigorated and will want to make the world a better place.

And this of course was always my intention.”

-Madonna

 

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My Birthday Shuck

After the show, I entreated Andy to take me out for oysters, to a place where I’ve always wanted to go: B&G Oysters in the South End. It was just a little after 11 o’clock, and I had but an hour left to my birthday. We sat at a window seat looking up onto Tremont Street, and I let the waiter surprise me with half a dozen of the slippery mollusks, and a glass of white wine. Still a virgin to the bi-valves, I don’t know good from bad – and remain at the mercy of those who know better. Thus far, I haven’t been steered, or shucked, wrong.

This is my birthday/oyster smile. It takes so little to make me so happy.

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A Birthday Dinner & Show

For my birthday dinner, I had made reservations at one of my favorite restaurants in Boston, Sibling Rivalry, not realizing that it was restaurant week, but after Andy’s Tom Ford splurge, I felt bad about asking for the regular menu, so we made do with the specials.

No matter what anyone says, there will always be a thrill in seeing your birth date printed out on menus and such. Even if you don’t want to make a big deal about it, it’s still a trip.

We usually use restaurant week to try out places we’ve never been, not for places like this, where the dinner is a little, well, softer than usual.

Despite the smaller portions, they still make a mean duck, and I trusted the waiter’s red wine recommendation.

Andy opted for the steak, a slightly sub-par steak according to him.

After dinner, we headed to the bar to settle our stomachs before the show – Gross Indecency. Hey, nothing says ‘Happy Birthday’ like a little Oscar Wilde and some decent indecency. Afterward, there would be one more birthday treat…

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Last Friday…

That’s me, on the steps of our Boston condo, on the morning of my 37th birthday. As much as I love a good party, I’ve never been one to do it up on my birthday, preferring smaller and more intimate celebrations – and nothing is more intimate than me and Andy. So what did I do on the anniversary of my birth? I got a new shower curtain at Marshall’s, scrubbed the bathtub on my hands and knees, washed a new set of bed sheets, and made up the bed. When someone else does it the rest of the year, it’s almost a treat, and certainly a special event.

Andy got me the last bottle of Tom Ford’s ‘Amber Absolute’ at Saks – I was about to get a different fragrance, and actually had it bagged and purchased, but upon hearing that it was indeed discontinued we made the last-minute change. It will be the perfect choice for the Fall. We spent a little afternoon siesta at the condo, where I read a bit and lounged before heading out for a birthday dinner and show.

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A Birthday Weekend Begins

Andy and I arrived in Boston last Thursday to kick off my birthday weekend. The weather was glorious, and would stay that way until we returned to upstate New York. On that first day, we entered in easy fashion, starting with cocktails at Bond at the Langham Hotel.

Dinner was loosely planned for the North End, where we did some exploring on the day before the Feast of Santa Lucia.

The North End is where religion, history, beauty, faith, and good food come together in magical fashion. It seemed a good moment to say a little prayer.

We ventured off the main drag of Hanover Street and walked a bit further, settling on La Famiglia Giorgio’s, which provided  standard, if unremarkable, Italian fare. In the North End I was hoping for something a bit more flavorful, but the family-style format gave us leftovers for the next day or two.

Luckily, the night was still young, and we headed closer to home in the South End, in the form of our wedding hotel – the Taj.

At that late hour, we had the place mostly to ourselves, taking a table that overlooked the Public Garden.

The lights of the Prudential Building are different than I remember – and it’s only been a month since I was last here, but it’s possible I simply never noticed. Regardless, they added a bit of pizzazz to the night skyline (even with a Hood blimp floating about).

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Martini Glow

For the Monday blues.

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Shirtless Sunday: Thom Evans

Now here’s a Thom I can get on board with ~ Mr. Thom Evans. He certainly has greater physical attributes than Tom Cruise, and it can only be guessed that his mental status is equally superior. Nothing against Scientology, I swear.

I kid. Though to be honest, underwear is my only religion – and these pictures show why. Much more of Mr. Evans HERE.

All of the images by photographer Daniel Jaems, from F.Tape Fashion.

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Shirtless Sunday: Tom Cruise

Because some people still find him hot. Once again, I am not some people, but I don’t begrudge anyone a bit of nostalgia.

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Dusk or Dawn

There’s always such a fine line. (In this case it’s the dusk, posted at the dawn.)

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