Comments on: When The Fall Ends http://www.alanilagan.com/general/when-the-fall-ends/ Tue, 07 Sep 2010 22:22:19 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: A. Lewis http://www.alanilagan.com/general/when-the-fall-ends/comment-page-1/#comment-41 A. Lewis Wed, 25 Nov 2009 00:34:24 +0000 http://www.alanilagan.com/?p=1328#comment-41 Ugh. Uncomfortable. I hate those moments. Of uncertainty. Of not knowing and confusion and who knows what. But it's better now. We're out and proud and happy, right? ! No matter the season. No matter the people or situations or conditions. We're who we are.....and that simply has to be enough. And it is. Ugh. Uncomfortable. I hate those moments. Of uncertainty. Of not knowing and confusion and who knows what. But it’s better now. We’re out and proud and happy, right? ! No matter the season. No matter the people or situations or conditions. We’re who we are…..and that simply has to be enough. And it is.

]]> By: Jeff http://www.alanilagan.com/general/when-the-fall-ends/comment-page-1/#comment-39 Jeff Wed, 25 Nov 2009 00:07:50 +0000 http://www.alanilagan.com/?p=1328#comment-39 I've learned that as long as you love yourself for who you are, others opinions of you have no merit. I'm too old to care what anyone thinks of me. I like me. I've always felt that everyone is worth knowing, and if somebody doesn't want to take the time to get to know me for who i am instead of who i sleep with, well, then it's just their loss. J I’ve learned that as long as you love yourself for who you are, others opinions of you have no merit. I’m too old to care what anyone thinks of me. I like me. I’ve always felt that everyone is worth knowing, and if somebody doesn’t want to take the time to get to know me for who i am instead of who i sleep with, well, then it’s just their loss.

J

]]> By: Jay Kay http://www.alanilagan.com/general/when-the-fall-ends/comment-page-1/#comment-36 Jay Kay Tue, 24 Nov 2009 23:41:56 +0000 http://www.alanilagan.com/?p=1328#comment-36 When I finally accepted that I was gay, I learned that no one, except for my sister, was was going to accept me. In the process, I lost my best friend, someone irreplaceable, and I've never felt complete since then. Lots of people like us have parts that are missing or broken, but have to get on with it anyway. When I finally accepted that I was gay, I learned that no one, except for my sister, was was going to accept me. In the process, I lost my best friend, someone irreplaceable, and I’ve never felt complete since then. Lots of people like us have parts that are missing or broken, but have to get on with it anyway.

]]> By: Jeff http://www.alanilagan.com/general/when-the-fall-ends/comment-page-1/#comment-35 Jeff Tue, 24 Nov 2009 18:13:05 +0000 http://www.alanilagan.com/?p=1328#comment-35 Thank you Alan for telling that beautiful story. I'm sorry for the loss of your friend, but I'm glad that it helped mold you into the beautiful person that you are today. We've yet to meet, but I'm moved by your words and your photos, and I hope that we have a chance to become friends. J Thank you Alan for telling that beautiful story. I’m sorry for the loss of your friend, but I’m glad that it helped mold you into the beautiful person that you are today. We’ve yet to meet, but I’m moved by your words and your photos, and I hope that we have a chance to become friends.

J

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